Can my anxiety and issues be cured by therapy?

[blazerock44]

1st problem:I have anxiety and paronia, I wanna live like real people, I'm turning 17 at midnight and I wasted half of my teen years on disaster. .. I can't even talk to my teacher when he's teaching other classes or stuff.. my heard just beats hard, even for stupid stuff like a teacher a signs a project and we have to pick groups. I don't want to end it, a man doesn't end, he fights..2nd problem: I bet no one is like me on this one and its effecting more then my anxiety, it's repetitive thinking, about "medical stuff like operations, catheter, endoscopy.. etc.." it's when you stand or sit an were and just think it all over for like 10 minutes on how it feel like since you never had one or stuff... can these be cured if I do therapy, coz I never ever had help with my issue..

[RasmusAiken]

OMG yes you can be helped. Try a licensed clinical therapist first because they won't just dope you on meds like a psychiatrist would. Know that medication might ultimately end up as being helpful but let your therapist guide you to that conclusion. Other later options could be hypnosis or psychiatry.

My best wishes for you. . . . . call today before offices close for NYE.

[blazerock44]

Thanks a lot, well I wanna do it without letting my parents know coz they just say it's normal and everyone goes through it.. witch is fucked up coz I'm living a nasty life.. how much does it cost to sit with a therapist? I want an amount that I can make or borrow from my cousin... I don't have any friends so yes, and I don't want my parents to spend on it, I want it from my pocket...

[RasmusAiken]

Call your county assistance office and explain your situation. Ask them for a referral to someone who will give you a break.

[reptocarl]

It will certainly help. Be forewarned. Counseling does work but its directly proportional to the honesty you put into it

[blazerock44]

What do you mean exactly

[reptocarl]

The more honest you are the better counseling will work. Do not lie or hide a secret. If you do you might as well not go

[blazerock44]

Well yes, why would I lie... but I'm still figuring out if I should anytime soon..

[reptocarl]

They can and will ask questions that are very personal and sensitive and most aren't willing to divulge that information. Most think if they tell the truth the therapist will tell them they're a freak and lock them up in a "nut house" and throw away the key. That doesn't happen. What you tell a therapist is the same as what you tell a lawyer or priest. It can't be held against you. But your answer is yes it can help

[blazerock44]

Wow... what kind of sensitive information?

[reptocarl]

They might ask how is your sex life. If you don't have one they might ask if you're masturbating. The reason they ask this is because sex is a normal part of life and if you're not doing something they want to know why, could it be medical, mental or medication related? There's a reason they ask and talk about the things they do. If they ask a fantasy of yours and its to tie up a 73 year old grandma and fuck her in the ass while she's tied up you tell them. Understand?

[blazerock44]

Lol😂... yes I don't ry care how personal they ask coz.. I just don't give a fk. exwpt when it comes to people... but I still Ned to think it... I might do it next year as I turn 18... I turned 17 today...😑

[dudegrt09]

I think you should give therapy a shot, since your issue is psychological... Also try yoga and meditation for dealing with anxiety...

[blazerock44]

Fuck anxiety for now. ... I want my thinking to disappear and my suicidal thoughts at times..

[dudegrt09]

Yes meditation and therapy will still help for that

[blazerock44]

The therapist would recommend meditation right?

[StickStickity13]

Your quality of life can improve by a lot

[blazerock44]

Omg I can imagine me crying to death on happiness... lol.. . do therepist give you medicine like pills and stuff? Is that there job? How will it make me change?

[StickStickity13]

Well you can get medication, but BCT is a therapy where they help you find the source of your anxiety and try to help you manage it. It can be very beneficial if you follow their advice