If you loved someone and they were overweight, would you or would you want to help them get into a better physical condition?

[Music_Hangover]

Just a survey question. I would also like it if you could possibly provide me with details as to why you say yes or no (pretty please!).

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Yes as my ex said he had been trying to lose weight for years and I have successfully lost and retained a healthy weight loss even through pregnancy.
But when it came to the crunch after being like a personal chef for 2 weeks my friend saw him going in the takeaway at lunch, which isn't a crime but took the piss out of my efforts to start him out on the right path.

Ultimately it's up to the individual - when I wanted to do it, i did it, not because anyone pushed me or supported me but because I made a choice and had the determination and self will to acheive my goal

[SilentShadow]

I wouldn't care really about their physical appearance, but instead what they eat. I would teach them how to be healthier so they live longer. It's their choice whether or not they actually want to be healthy.

[Little-Hippie]

Honestly, I've been there before; where I've been in love with a girl who gained a bunch of weight.

I've learned that it doesn't matter how much you want to help someone get in shape. If they don't want it for themselves, it's not going anywhere at all.

So no, I would probably leave that situation sooner than later.

[FireInMyPantsMD]

Very good answer bro. It was the other way for me, I fell for a beautiful looking girl with little chub chub, but she changed her life style and diet, and started yoga and working out and now she is in far better shape.
When I used to see her pushing it too hard, I used to tell her to take it easy and slow down, she'd reply: "you deserve a sexier girlfriend"

[Little-Hippie]

@FireInMyPantsMD
Damn bro.

Now, that's a keeper.

[worldscolide]

Of course i would, Improving health is a good thing. I was the one that is over weight, was and still am lol, and because of her encouragement i have lost 70 pounds. Thats a huge deal if you ask me. Im doing it because i want children and want to stick around for them, and i want to stay around for my wife.

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

Yes, i would love her and help support her to losing weight
but her weight wouldn't make no difference to me. I been on
a walking program and so far things seem to be going good.
I'm willing to support a girl in all aspects as long as she's
willing to be beside me and help me by all means through
the tough, good, bad, happy, sad.

[iCroissant]

No.
Because there's no guarentee she'd be pretty after she lost weight and then im stuck in a relationship with someone I don't find physically attractive and if I dont find someone physically attractive, I'm sorry, the relati on ship will not work whether or not I want it to.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

i would date a guy who was overweight as long as he was still attractive and not grossly obese. however he does have to start coming to the gym and improving his diet if he wants to be with me long term.

[Blonde401]

if they'd always been like that? No, I love them for who they are when I met them! If they suddenly gained a lot of weight over a period of time, I'd join the gym with them and cook for them and stuff.

[ThisDudeHere]

IF they themselves actually wanted to, then yes I would help. But I wouldn't be together with an overweight person who doesn't want to do anything about it at all and expects me to accept them as they are.

[Tarnygosh]

Depends on the weight, if they're just slightly overweight but far from obese and look good, I don't mind. If they're very overweight. I'd really really want them to lose it so I can be better sexually attracted to them.

[Sharonpinto04]

I would want him to feel better about himself and be fit and healthy so that he won"t face any health problems in future due to his weight.

[cavmanier]

I'll give pretty much anyone advice if they want help losing weight. It's like an epidemic that I know a lot of people struggle with.

[crazychickenlady]

I would only help them if they personally wanted to lose weight for themselves.

[meatballs21]

I am in good shape myself, so yes, I would be willing to help them. They have to be willing and committed to it too.

[madhatters4]

i would want to help them find a way to live a healthier lifestyle

[Dimmu]

Only for her health
I'll be turned on her anyways , slaming all my beauty standards
That's not just saying, that's how I found myself reacting in realitg

[Heera]

Totally! I'd work out with him, cook him healthy foods and I wouldn't let him give up by any means

[KittieCat]

In love with someone who is underweight and trying to help him

[Africanchild]

If you can and also if the person you love doesn't mind loosing some weight then why not

[Alex88F]

help them a) realize that being fat is damaging them as well as their life choices B) fuck them a lot to help them lose weight or force them to exercice with me. as well as using another healthy diet

[Wulfila]

I would, yes. I see everyday what being overweight has done to my family's health, and I don't want my friends or boo to go down the same path.

[ayylamo]

I'd want to cut out soda & ice cream from their diet for sure.

[nala_rawr]

what if she doesn't even partake in those things? hahaha

[ayylamo]

@nala_rawr I've never seen an obese person NOT have soda & ice cream in their fridge.
https://i.imgur.com/dl09rDa.png

But let's say she really didn't... I'd just take away whatever was providing her with excess carbs/sugar.

[nala_rawr]

Hahahahahaha!!! Omg... the visuals!!!
Makes sense :)

[Summer_Bunny]

If I loved someone I'd help them to be a better person in all aspects of their life.

[anonman32]

yes of course i would, there would be no doubt in this.