Should I tell my mother?

[Sweetcheeks1]

Well, im now on my period, and i missed it for 3 months, i haven't told my mum as i am independent and dont like people helping me. Should i tell her or not?

[JiminsHoe]

Well I mean you are 21, so you can get a test kit...
I'd do that first considering they're cheap, quick, and easy to get.
Because you don't want to freak yourself out over nothing,
But do it NOW, and if not now tomorrow because if you're pregnant thats a VERY SERIOUS thing, especially at your young age, and the longer you wait, the less chance you have of.. well...
If it says positive, you should definitely tell your mom, I mean seriously. I know you're an adult & independent, but in these situations you're just afraid of hurting your pride or think you can handle it, but you may not be able to. Mothers usually do know best and she can help you through this if you're pregnant.

[Sweetcheeks1]

No, this is my sisters account, so she gave it to me, im 13. :) I know im not pregnant though, as i stay away from sexual things anyway, but thanks for the help! :)

[JiminsHoe]

Oh! Hold up then.
When did you get your first period?

[Sweetcheeks1]

In August :)

[JiminsHoe]

Girl you're fine!!! (Or I think)
I got mine right when I turned 14 and its still not totally regular.
Its because from the first period you get until 2 years later, your period won't be regular, it can skip months, go overtime, go undertime, etc, etc.
But 3 months seems like a while, so just in case, i'd tell your mom.

[Sweetcheeks1]

Thank you! Your a life saver, at least i have someone around the age of me when they got there's, Ill tell my mum and see what she thinks, she probably will think its a good thing as i hate periods xDD

[JiminsHoe]

You and me both.. plus i'm deathly scared of tampons so that *totallyyyyy* helps. 😂
And yeah if you have any questions just ask!

[Sweetcheeks1]

Oh my god, same, i have a fear that i will put it in wrong, and something bad will happen xD

[Drooogie4]

Why would you tell her?
See a doctor if you're worried?

[Sweetcheeks1]

Well i can't really see a doctor, because its a parent and teen doctor, so parents have to go with you.

[Sweetcheeks1]

her not you* xD

[Drooogie4]

Then I guess you should tell her

[Sweetcheeks1]

Okay thanks.

[sparta13]

sometime it happened... as long as u have ur periods u should not worry... if u really want to tell than meet the DOC so he/she can tell u what is the reason behind u missing ur periods for 3 moths

[Sweetcheeks1]

Well i asked my sister, and she had the same thing. I thinks it because of too much water and sports. I do football and hockey and netball, so that was why xx :)

[sparta13]

may be one of my friend had same problem and she was too skinny and that was the reason behind her problem

[Sweetcheeks1]

Yea, :)

[ProbablyTooMature]

Tell her what? That you're on your period? That you missed it? Tell her what?

[Sweetcheeks1]

That im on my period. I cleary missed it because i did sports for 3 months.

[ProbablyTooMature]

Why would she care? Did you tell her you missed it? Wait, are you not 21? Did you lie on your age on here?

[Sweetcheeks1]

Mate, if your gonna be stupid, you may aswell leave, i wasn't intending for boys to come on here, as you probably dont even know anything about periods, so dont even bother answering, because all your doing it getting on my nerves.

[ProbablyTooMature]

HAHAHHA. Yes, I know nothing about periods. You poor fucking child.

[ProbablyTooMature]

In all likelihood I know FAR more about periods than you. You think because you get them and I don't, that you're the master of them? Sure, tell that to every fucking male gynecologist out there you sodding twat.

[Sweetcheeks1]

To be honest, would you think im poor if i live in a mansion? would you think i was poor if i am typing on a apple mac book pro? Re think what you are saying. Because you need to head back to Pre School. (37 year old, smh)

[ProbablyTooMature]

Oooh. A mansion! I'm sooooo impressed.

[Sweetcheeks1]

kys please :)

[Sweetcheeks1]

And by the way, doesn't seem like your a doctor to me, you act like a 2 year old.

[ProbablyTooMature]

What can I say, act like a child get treated like a child. I asked questions because I wanted to help and you turned into a little bitch, so you don't deserve any sort of decency from me.

[INeedToGetHelp]

Do what you feel is right. I'm not particularly close to my mom so I probably wouldn't tell her.

[Tdieseler]

lol... well at this time not many are...
but at my time?

[Sweetcheeks1]

Okay Thanks i'm not that close to my mum aswell.

[Anonymous]

Find out why you are first... no point worrying her if it's nothing

[QuietRunner]

she could give you advice

[Sweetcheeks1]

Well, she already had the "Talk" and i had it at school. So will it be nessacary?

[Tdieseler]

like he said... she could have something for you. its a weird phenom... you might wanna find out. especially if you did have sex.

[Sweetcheeks1]

@Tdieseler Okay thank you lots.

[Tdieseler]

very welcome. Good luck