Well odds are he doesn't know how to fight. And people will normally use their whole force to attack, but not maintaining balance. So u have to use that on ur advantage. I can't say what to do exactly, since there are millions upon millions of ways to defend yourself. But in this one, u should turn to YouTube and see specific moves u want to practice. Also have time to practice, there will be no point in knowing what to do, if u didn't at least practice and try it out.
Also when u give a hit, u should build up the power from the shoulder all they way to ur hands. So u kinda twist your upper body to gain force. Keep your hands as close to your body and face to protect them from any hit.
A simple self defense technique is if he is coming fast towards u, u could just do "β" shape and poke his eyes.
Another one is if he is trying to pull you, instead of trying to pull away, u push towards him. Never back down, if he is taller than u and stronger than u, then u shouldn't be afraid to move closer.
Like if u see street fights, people will usually just back away to avoid getting hit. Well this is bad because it loses their balance and their energy decreases for the next attack. But of you move toward, then u not only surprise ur opponent, but u gain a better access to his pressure points
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If you really need to neutralize him: a hard knee between the legs, with the bottom of an open hand punch hard against the bottom of his nose. If its really necessary: two fingers in the eyes or a fist punch on the throat (but thats really neutralizing)
You should really tell someone, but I probably won't change your mind there.
If he does try anything, firmly tell him no. Going by what you wrote you went along with it because you were young and naive, it doesn't sound like he used violence. Intimidation maybe. In any case, you need to let him know that he won't get away with it anymore and show him that you're not afraid to say no or to do what it takes to stop him. If he does resort to threatening or trying to force you, I guess you'll most likely be in the same house as other family members. Scream and shout, tell him to get his hands off of you and shout for help, they'll come to see what's going on. That might stop him straight away. If not, go for pressure points like you said - it will be hard for him to do much to do after you've jammed a thumb hard into his eye, hit him in the throat and/or given him a good knee to the balls. If it does come to violence (which you obviously want to avoid at all costs) be as aggressive as possible, just keep hitting til he drops or runs away, and scream. Change his mind on which one of you is the predator and which one is prey.
That palm thing uppercut on the nose that women do, that hurts and obviously the balls, he's a bit big for you to just take him on physically, don't get overconfident those methods are just to wear him off, you have to have a weapon at the very least if you want to take him on one on one. I helped my girl with her kickboxing, after a few years she still struggled to take me on even though I only have a fan belt for street fighting. No, you have to me smarter, or become a true master at some self defense art. That takes time. This is real life, don't go look at movies and think you could take on superman anytime you like.
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Oh:) you want to handle it by hand to hand techniques or just "repellant"? Depends how violent he is, if he gets too violent then you can hit him in the knees, balls, solar plexus (middle of chest between the ribs), lower back but be careful, i would not suggest going to neck or head area unless you want him dead
Look into BJJ. It's the most complete and PROVEN self defense system you can learn. Size doesn't matter in BJJ, it's all about using whatever opening your adversary leaves open against them
Chances are your brother has grown up since then so you have nothing to worry about. Should he try anything, you can hit him in the head, get his ears ringing so he'll be dazed. you can also punch him in the face, it might hurt for you, but he should reconsider when his nose is bleeding.
Have something semi-sharp in your hand or pocket at all times so if you need to you can use it to gouge his eyes out. When it doubt, back out. Keep him spinning in circles to tire him out, then knee him in his family jewels.
ermm you dont casually say you were molested by your brother and ask for self defence tips. you want a tip? Report that shit to the police and tell your parents.
OMG! Show someone this question and expose him otherwise you might never be free. You can't live in fear of him being around.
His arm down infront of you your arm on his nose lifting up then your hand downpushing his head it will make everyone fall
Place a knife under your pillow or near your bed so if he comes in to rape you stab him in the dark that way when your family comes running they find him in your room with his boxers down so you get revenge and proof as welk as defence.
Best defence? TELL SOMEONE ABOUT IT
Men have testicles. That is all you need to know.
aikido is the best one
a kick in his balls will end him
Sweep the leg.
Just let it happen.
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