Beach Trip?

[Anonymous]

So I'm going to the beach with one of my friends, whom I like. I'm a little worried about the way my body looks. I'm not extremely overweight, but I am a bit chubby. The question I have is, should I just take off my shirt and not worry about it? (I'm my head that would make me seem more confident) Or should I just keep my shirt on? Because I'm not sure how much physical attraction might have to do with things.

[Stvancer]

Dude, its the beach. TAKE YOUR SHIRT OFF. She knows its the beach, it is expected. It shows confidence. If you think about it too much, just start thinking that you are hot sh*t, and it won't even matter. If you leave your shirt on here, will you leave it on if things get hot and heavy later with her? Are you going to be the only guy who has sex with a shirt on all the time? Get real and take it off.

[Asker]

XDDDD you've got a point. That scenario made me laugh a little. Ight. Just had it on my mind. Thanks

[Stvancer]

Haha, laughing was kind of the point, if you can't laugh at that ridiculous scenario, then you are just too serious. Good luck!

[PredictablePen]

i think when it comes to "beach body's", people criticize themselves WAY TOO MUCH. I can guarantee that the majority of the problem here is in yur head. just relax man. yur on vacation with a good friend on the beach. break loose, and recline on the beach. the less you pay attention to how you are looking with yur shirt off, the more confident you will seem. and girls love confidence!

[Swampwater]

hey man, I'll tell you a little rule I live by called "F#CK what other people think"

it's saved me a lot of worrying.