First off, many guys don't care all that much about weight until it hits the level of being unhealthy. But for the most part its attitude over weight, a frumpy girl, which many over weight girls fall into, will get less attention than a vibatious girl, that's just the standard that is out there with all girls. For every type of girl out there, fat skinny or some where inbetween, there is all types of guys that are into them, the problem is if a girl into frump mode they just give up on looking.
sometimes I get confused though because I'm big and some guys say I'm fat and others say I'm curvy or chubby and some make me seem like I'm overweight if I told you how much I weigh but then you looked at me you wouldn't believe me ..im kinda brolic I guess strong shoulders legs and arms what would that make me?
and weight doesn't matter it depends on the guy. a lot of jerks say fat girls can't get hot guys but uumm every guy I have ever been with or had the chance to be with have always been hot ,smart, talented and all of that .
us girls stress things way too much the guy that we are sposed to be with will like us for who we are why bother with the guys who don't matter and will eventually break our hearts?
women don't care much about these, but men do. My ex dating guy, lie to me telling he was single, after months being with me he dump me by text, then I found he was always engaged, when I saw his ex on a picture she was kind of a chubby girl, but also he was chubby. I am skinny, but in good proportion. While I was with him, he always told me he liked me a lot, but after he dump me I realize he just liked me physically and just for sex. I don't know if he really loved his fiance, I think no, because if he really loved him he would not care if she was chubby or at least respect her if he really love her... I think that when you really love someone you don't care if she is chubby and you respect him or her, and you don't cheat him or her with another person several times
I am 160 lbs. And 5'1...I guess guys don't think that I am fat they tell me that I a nice thick body. And one guy said that I have body fat in all the places...But seriously doesn't matter because a long as you think that you are the matta f***en princess(confidence is key) than you're good I not saying that you don't have to work out. I don't know for me I still think I fat so I still loosing some weight...and when you loose weight your body feels better...And also if find clothes that fit your body type..Like for example I have a curvy body like coke body figure so its hard to find blouses that have that shape and for the pants I have a big butt so I buy one size bigger for my butt.
From my understanding from the girls point of view, it matters. And I believe that it all stems from back to days of the simple life of attracting a suitable male so that way you can both create offspring...etc. But life is complicated now, women are up against a wide range of media that show how women are suppose to look and how their suppose to act. We as a society, as much as we don't want to admit it, treat healthy and beautiful women with VIP treatment than those who are the opposite.
Does weight matter to me? Well yeah, not as a image sense but more that I like a healthy women who can physically keep up. I don't mean for you all to be muscular, I just mean fit or at least respecting your body by eating right and exercising on a good schedule. But this is just me.
I was once a little sex devil that engaged in things such as kama sutra and other things such as tantra and what not (I ain't giving up all of my secrets...)... What I have found is that with size, sexual positions become more and more limited... especially my favorite, called "Winged god of eros", I would have a broken or dislocated hip if I tried that with a woman that is more than 70kg... Hell, if she were the same weight as me, (84kg athletic build martial artist) I'd have all kind of medical problems... What I learned is that with a larger woman, sexual positions are limited to spooning, missionary and "white tiger" (aka "doogy")... Quite borring if you ask me... #1 reason people say they cheat is because they are bored sexually. I get bored easilly... I never cheated because I rather take a gun and shoot myself. I don't want a reason to shoot myself, so I look for what will not bore me.
It depends on what you mean by weight. Weight the numbers? nope. Doesn't matter. A guy is not going to pull out a scale and ask you how much you weigh. He's going to look at you and judge if you're attractive to him or not. This can be many different things. Some guys like skinny girls, some guys like girls with more meat on them. Generally, if you want to be on the safe side, just be healthy, eat right and exercise.
So... yeah. if weight = nmber? no. most likely not. plus, the number is misleading. more muscle = weigh more but you could still be very healthy.
if weight = if you look healthy/to their liking? yes.
ok so all of these guys are saying it matteres but the fact is that it should matter for health resons. you should always aim for the heavier side of your wight range because truth is women need the fat for energey. its how God desighned us. look it up! people on the heavier side of the wight range chart live longer because they have more energey stored in thir bodies. I personaly try to stay on the low side because yeah my wieght isn't because I want to be healthy its because I'm to vien... that's bad but its the honest truth.
I want to bring up something (I didn't read all the comments so I don't know whether it was brought up already) that I have a problem with, and many others do as well. I think it's how you look, not just a number that says how much you weigh.
I'm 5'8" and weigh 172 pounds. Now, this may seem overweight, but it technically is still in the "healthy" weight BMI category. On top of that, I don't look like I weigh 172. A lot of it is muscle because I'm very active in different kinds of sports. I'm also athletically built, so I'm going to weigh more than the average 5'8" person.
I think it's mostly how you look and not what you weigh, because one of those things might not necessarily ring true about the other. One can mislead a judgment on the other.
girls are much more self concious about their weight and worry about their own weight much more than any guys ganna care.
i guess you could say weight matters for a guy whos only into looks. so if your going for some douche who only dates you for your looks, will prob treat you like crap, and will get rid of you after your frist pregnancy or sign of wrinkles... the answer is yes it does matter lol.
But for most guys who actualy want to have a real relationship with someone, there's a lot of other stuff on the table that is of higher priority.
It does but every guy is different. Plenty of averagely desirably guys don't care, they are more in the face. Although some like me get wicked turned off by what they consider fat. I actually prefer girls to have no stomach, muffin top, or sluppiness (waves and such) but be as volupious as possible breast, butt, hips, smallest waist possible, legs (more so thighs). altough
most white guys are suburban and surburban guy usually like pancake and stick legs (including thighs) some time don't like big hips. most blacks and hispanic are from urban culture and there for have the same preference as me. I am actually white but grew up in small city and get look at funny all the time by white people when I mention my preference
It does matter. You can't be too fat, or we'll push you off as being unattractive and you'll lose points with a lot of guys.
When I say fat, I don't mean chubby. I mean like really overweight, like if you're over 170lbs, regardless of your height, the chances are you're probably fat. 130lbs to 160lbs almost always falls into the chubby category. Over here it'll depend more on the guy. Some guys don't like chubby girls, but lots of guy do (myself included).
But if you're under 130lbs, and you think you're fat, you're just being paranoid. You might have a bit of a tummy, but no guy that's worth it is going to care about that.
I honestly don't care about BMI, really. It's a very tricky thing, and it's not a measure of how attractive a girl is. I've found that you can have a healthy BMI but still be considered fat or too skinny by a lot of people. So to answer you, if my tastes are unhealthy for the girl, I wouldn't care. Some girls fall into the overweight category, but they're still pretty hot. Take my friend that's 5'0 and weighs 140lbs. That falls into the overweight category, but I still think she's HOT.
Unrealistic? Tell that to my hot friends. I'm talking about girls here. Not guys. It's normal for guys with muscles who are that height, to weigh more than that.
But if an athlete girl is 5'8 and weighs over 160, perhaps she might not be fat, but let's just say guys aren't too happy being with a girl who has more muscle than he does.
I imagine it would be the same as you being with a guy who's thinner than you, has less body hair, and takes much longer to get ready than you do. Same sh*t.
Not trying to attack you or anything but I do want to give you an idea what the weights you've listed look like on real women. As you can see, height clearly does matter because as height increases, so does the amount of weight you can carry without it being readily obvious.
I admit, I like skinny girls, always have. That being said focussing on the scale is the wrong way to go about it. Me I like athletic girls; they often have more muscle tone than average girls and because of that will weigh more. That will not even be something I notice. Do I care about weight, yes, but not the number, just the appearance. That means you shouldn't be ashamed weighing 60 kg or whatever, my thoughts on you aren't going to change if it turns out you weight 20 kg more than I estimated. I go by how you look. Also there is not an ideal weight to aim for, once you're within a certain range, then you're good. If you're at a nice size and you're standing next to your friend who's 1 dress size below you, chances are if we're comparing, we've moved on to other features.
Does weight matter? Yes it does! I'm in my fifties. When I was between my teens to later twenties, a slender woman was my turn on. I wanted her to be where I could man handle her by moving her legs anyway I wanted her. As I matured, I realized it was no longer about me but rather how WE were together in bed. I began to enjoy having a woman with more weight on her. I liked not being with that skinny skeleton of a woman, where her bones stuck into me when we had sex. Larger women became more attractive to my guy friends and me. So I guess the best saying that all women need to keep in mind, Every Dog Has Its Day.
honestly as long as you're the extreme of the two like either too fat or too skinny I'm good.
Because then you are just endangering your health.
and I think girls make SUCH a big deal about their weight. Like it's not that big of a deal, as long as you're not endangering your health you look great :) This is just an idea but what would happen if ALL the girls said I like how I look and am confident in my own body. This would essentially ruin the media's description of what a girl should look like and from now on girls wouldn't feel the need to look perfect or dress a certain way to be accepted. I mean I would rather have a girl dress the way she wants to then the way she is supposed to dress. (as long as it goes with the venue. I wouldn't want to see a girl wearing PJ's at a wedding lol)
My ideas are out there but I hope you got the message
I think it does big time. Not for me but for her. She is not going to feel comfortable when we make love if she feels self conscious about her weight. She is not want to go anywhere. Forget about the beach! I love curves. So unless you like watching videos at home. That's what its going to be like.
NO! I've been in love with my girlfriend since we were just friends in high school, & I've seen her working out & rock solid, a little chubby, & heavy enough to wear plus sizes, & I've NEVER thought of her as ANYTHING BUT BEAUTIFUL...
Most guys prefer that your breasts stick out further than your belly.
That's the general preference because some girls are just thick, with some fat around their legs that makes them look sexy, regardless. I prefer voluptuous women, and sometimes voluptuous women have a bit of a belly, which isn't back since it mostly flattens up when they're lying on their back.
It really doesn't matter to me at all, I think you can be a bigger girl and still be very attractive, that and I focus on personality and if they are clean, smell nice and such things. I have been with a number of bigger girls and very much enjoyed my relationships with them both personally and sexually. Besides that if she can accept me and finds me attractive I feel I can very much do the same.
I will be the first to admit, there are those who might consider me a loser, as I'm not all judgemental, superficial or petty. I have never been considered one of the popular crowd. This doesen't mean that you can't be popular and genuine, however it has been my experience that the folks that tend to run in the "popular" crowd are often populated with those who think they have it all, and in reality are the ones most lacking. it's all a matter of perception.
For me not really but I am picky but more so towards personality. As for your statement "We always have to look good, because if were not then we will be judged." most of the judging comes from your self and how you view your selfs.
Conversations I've had with dudes concerning weight with girls has always been on the positive side and not being that big of an issue.
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First off, many guys don't care all that much about weight until it hits the level of being unhealthy. But for the most part its attitude over weight, a frumpy girl, which many over weight girls fall into, will get less attention than a vibatious girl, that's just the standard that is out there with all girls. For every type of girl out there, fat skinny or some where inbetween, there is all types of guys that are into them, the problem is if a girl into frump mode they just give up on looking.
sometimes I get confused though because I'm big and some guys say I'm fat and others say I'm curvy or chubby and some make me seem like I'm overweight if I told you how much I weigh but then you looked at me you wouldn't believe me ..im kinda brolic I guess strong shoulders legs and arms what would that make me?
and weight doesn't matter it depends on the guy. a lot of jerks say fat girls can't get hot guys but uumm every guy I have ever been with or had the chance to be with have always been hot ,smart, talented and all of that .
us girls stress things way too much the guy that we are sposed to be with will like us for who we are why bother with the guys who don't matter and will eventually break our hearts?
women don't care much about these, but men do. My ex dating guy, lie to me telling he was single, after months being with me he dump me by text, then I found he was always engaged, when I saw his ex on a picture she was kind of a chubby girl, but also he was chubby. I am skinny, but in good proportion. While I was with him, he always told me he liked me a lot, but after he dump me I realize he just liked me physically and just for sex. I don't know if he really loved his fiance, I think no, because if he really loved him he would not care if she was chubby or at least respect her if he really love her... I think that when you really love someone you don't care if she is chubby and you respect him or her, and you don't cheat him or her with another person several times
I am 160 lbs. And 5'1...I guess guys don't think that I am fat they tell me that I a nice thick body. And one guy said that I have body fat in all the places...But seriously doesn't matter because a long as you think that you are the matta f***en princess(confidence is key) than you're good I not saying that you don't have to work out. I don't know for me I still think I fat so I still loosing some weight...and when you loose weight your body feels better...And also if find clothes that fit your body type..Like for example I have a curvy body like coke body figure so its hard to find blouses that have that shape and for the pants I have a big butt so I buy one size bigger for my butt.
From my understanding from the girls point of view, it matters. And I believe that it all stems from back to days of the simple life of attracting a suitable male so that way you can both create offspring...etc. But life is complicated now, women are up against a wide range of media that show how women are suppose to look and how their suppose to act. We as a society, as much as we don't want to admit it, treat healthy and beautiful women with VIP treatment than those who are the opposite.
Does weight matter to me? Well yeah, not as a image sense but more that I like a healthy women who can physically keep up. I don't mean for you all to be muscular, I just mean fit or at least respecting your body by eating right and exercising on a good schedule. But this is just me.
To me, yes...
I was once a little sex devil that engaged in things such as kama sutra and other things such as tantra and what not (I ain't giving up all of my secrets...)... What I have found is that with size, sexual positions become more and more limited... especially my favorite, called "Winged god of eros", I would have a broken or dislocated hip if I tried that with a woman that is more than 70kg... Hell, if she were the same weight as me, (84kg athletic build martial artist) I'd have all kind of medical problems... What I learned is that with a larger woman, sexual positions are limited to spooning, missionary and "white tiger" (aka "doogy")... Quite borring if you ask me... #1 reason people say they cheat is because they are bored sexually. I get bored easilly... I never cheated because I rather take a gun and shoot myself. I don't want a reason to shoot myself, so I look for what will not bore me.
Tantra? Winged God of Eros? White tiger? Hahaha wow.
You are an idiot, you know that?
LOL I am? How did that happen? :)
It depends on what you mean by weight. Weight the numbers? nope. Doesn't matter. A guy is not going to pull out a scale and ask you how much you weigh. He's going to look at you and judge if you're attractive to him or not. This can be many different things. Some guys like skinny girls, some guys like girls with more meat on them. Generally, if you want to be on the safe side, just be healthy, eat right and exercise.
So... yeah. if weight = nmber? no. most likely not. plus, the number is misleading. more muscle = weigh more but you could still be very healthy.
if weight = if you look healthy/to their liking? yes.
ok so all of these guys are saying it matteres but the fact is that it should matter for health resons. you should always aim for the heavier side of your wight range because truth is women need the fat for energey. its how God desighned us. look it up! people on the heavier side of the wight range chart live longer because they have more energey stored in thir bodies. I personaly try to stay on the low side because yeah my wieght isn't because I want to be healthy its because I'm to vien... that's bad but its the honest truth.
I think weight does matter to a point.
I want to bring up something (I didn't read all the comments so I don't know whether it was brought up already) that I have a problem with, and many others do as well. I think it's how you look, not just a number that says how much you weigh.
I'm 5'8" and weigh 172 pounds. Now, this may seem overweight, but it technically is still in the "healthy" weight BMI category. On top of that, I don't look like I weigh 172. A lot of it is muscle because I'm very active in different kinds of sports. I'm also athletically built, so I'm going to weigh more than the average 5'8" person.
I think it's mostly how you look and not what you weigh, because one of those things might not necessarily ring true about the other. One can mislead a judgment on the other.
I hope that makes sense? lol
girls are much more self concious about their weight and worry about their own weight much more than any guys ganna care.
i guess you could say weight matters for a guy whos only into looks. so if your going for some douche who only dates you for your looks, will prob treat you like crap, and will get rid of you after your frist pregnancy or sign of wrinkles... the answer is yes it does matter lol.
But for most guys who actualy want to have a real relationship with someone, there's a lot of other stuff on the table that is of higher priority.
It does but every guy is different. Plenty of averagely desirably guys don't care, they are more in the face. Although some like me get wicked turned off by what they consider fat. I actually prefer girls to have no stomach, muffin top, or sluppiness (waves and such) but be as volupious as possible breast, butt, hips, smallest waist possible, legs (more so thighs). altough
most white guys are suburban and surburban guy usually like pancake and stick legs (including thighs) some time don't like big hips. most blacks and hispanic are from urban culture and there for have the same preference as me. I am actually white but grew up in small city and get look at funny all the time by white people when I mention my preference
It does matter. You can't be too fat, or we'll push you off as being unattractive and you'll lose points with a lot of guys.
When I say fat, I don't mean chubby. I mean like really overweight, like if you're over 170lbs, regardless of your height, the chances are you're probably fat. 130lbs to 160lbs almost always falls into the chubby category. Over here it'll depend more on the guy. Some guys don't like chubby girls, but lots of guy do (myself included).
But if you're under 130lbs, and you think you're fat, you're just being paranoid. You might have a bit of a tummy, but no guy that's worth it is going to care about that.
What do you think about the fact that most bmi is in complete disagreement with what you just said?
i think people & bmi's for people are much heavier than they need to be- but that is my opinion.
as far as bmi goes, girls are healthier over 130, if they are over 5 '5...basically.
What if your tastes are unhealthy for the girl- would you care?
>5 feet, 8 inches BMI is: 19.8 :
Normal weight = 18.5-24.9
Overweight = 25-29.9
Obesity = BMI of 30 or greater*
I honestly don't care about BMI, really. It's a very tricky thing, and it's not a measure of how attractive a girl is. I've found that you can have a healthy BMI but still be considered fat or too skinny by a lot of people. So to answer you, if my tastes are unhealthy for the girl, I wouldn't care. Some girls fall into the overweight category, but they're still pretty hot. Take my friend that's 5'0 and weighs 140lbs. That falls into the overweight category, but I still think she's HOT.
Haha this is kind of unrealistic...many athletes who are taller than 5'7 or 5'8 do weigh over 160...
and most athletes have bangin bodies...
idt you have a clue what your talking about haha
Unrealistic? Tell that to my hot friends. I'm talking about girls here. Not guys. It's normal for guys with muscles who are that height, to weigh more than that.
But if an athlete girl is 5'8 and weighs over 160, perhaps she might not be fat, but let's just say guys aren't too happy being with a girl who has more muscle than he does.
I imagine it would be the same as you being with a guy who's thinner than you, has less body hair, and takes much longer to get ready than you do. Same sh*t.
https://www.mybodygallery.com/img/4/287.jpg (5'2"/125 lbs/Size 8)
https://www.mybodygallery.com/img/342/4.jpg (5'6"/145lbs/Size 8)
https://www.mybodygallery.com/img/84/1.jpg (5'10"/170lbs/Size 12)
Not trying to attack you or anything but I do want to give you an idea what the weights you've listed look like on real women. As you can see, height clearly does matter because as height increases, so does the amount of weight you can carry without it being readily obvious.
I admit, I like skinny girls, always have. That being said focussing on the scale is the wrong way to go about it. Me I like athletic girls; they often have more muscle tone than average girls and because of that will weigh more. That will not even be something I notice. Do I care about weight, yes, but not the number, just the appearance. That means you shouldn't be ashamed weighing 60 kg or whatever, my thoughts on you aren't going to change if it turns out you weight 20 kg more than I estimated. I go by how you look. Also there is not an ideal weight to aim for, once you're within a certain range, then you're good. If you're at a nice size and you're standing next to your friend who's 1 dress size below you, chances are if we're comparing, we've moved on to other features.
Does weight matter? Yes it does! I'm in my fifties. When I was between my teens to later twenties, a slender woman was my turn on. I wanted her to be where I could man handle her by moving her legs anyway I wanted her. As I matured, I realized it was no longer about me but rather how WE were together in bed. I began to enjoy having a woman with more weight on her. I liked not being with that skinny skeleton of a woman, where her bones stuck into me when we had sex. Larger women became more attractive to my guy friends and me. So I guess the best saying that all women need to keep in mind, Every Dog Has Its Day.
honestly as long as you're the extreme of the two like either too fat or too skinny I'm good.
Because then you are just endangering your health.
and I think girls make SUCH a big deal about their weight. Like it's not that big of a deal, as long as you're not endangering your health you look great :) This is just an idea but what would happen if ALL the girls said I like how I look and am confident in my own body. This would essentially ruin the media's description of what a girl should look like and from now on girls wouldn't feel the need to look perfect or dress a certain way to be accepted. I mean I would rather have a girl dress the way she wants to then the way she is supposed to dress. (as long as it goes with the venue. I wouldn't want to see a girl wearing PJ's at a wedding lol)
My ideas are out there but I hope you got the message
I think it does big time. Not for me but for her. She is not going to feel comfortable when we make love if she feels self conscious about her weight. She is not want to go anywhere. Forget about the beach! I love curves. So unless you like watching videos at home. That's what its going to be like.
NO! I've been in love with my girlfriend since we were just friends in high school, & I've seen her working out & rock solid, a little chubby, & heavy enough to wear plus sizes, & I've NEVER thought of her as ANYTHING BUT BEAUTIFUL...
Most guys prefer that your breasts stick out further than your belly.
That's the general preference because some girls are just thick, with some fat around their legs that makes them look sexy, regardless. I prefer voluptuous women, and sometimes voluptuous women have a bit of a belly, which isn't back since it mostly flattens up when they're lying on their back.
It really doesn't matter to me at all, I think you can be a bigger girl and still be very attractive, that and I focus on personality and if they are clean, smell nice and such things. I have been with a number of bigger girls and very much enjoyed my relationships with them both personally and sexually. Besides that if she can accept me and finds me attractive I feel I can very much do the same.
U must be a loser, no offense
Why is he a loser....just wondering?
I will be the first to admit, there are those who might consider me a loser, as I'm not all judgemental, superficial or petty. I have never been considered one of the popular crowd. This doesen't mean that you can't be popular and genuine, however it has been my experience that the folks that tend to run in the "popular" crowd are often populated with those who think they have it all, and in reality are the ones most lacking. it's all a matter of perception.
Citygurl you must be anorexic and dumb.more dumb though because you spelt GIRL wrong and its not cool the way you did it...no offense.
hahaha scorpion princess you made me laugh. I agree 100% she is probaly a little bitch who thinks she is cool over the internet.
For me not really but I am picky but more so towards personality. As for your statement "We always have to look good, because if were not then we will be judged." most of the judging comes from your self and how you view your selfs.
Conversations I've had with dudes concerning weight with girls has always been on the positive side and not being that big of an issue.