Is it strange or out of the question for a girl to like a bigger man?

[Newskin01]

I am by no means huge. I got a little gut. But I'm energetic and I'm willing to do w.e. bike rides anything. I like this girl and well she's very fit and well imo cute. She knows I like her and she seems to respond well to me. I get I miss you and love you and we sweet talk. But I guess I've never made the move. I think its possible but idk. I suppose I should make a move but I don't wanna be creepy. I'm honest and maybe a little shy but I really like her and me being a bigger guy I don't wanna get the wrong signals stuck in my head. I don't know what to think. so on track of the main question please answer. Thanks. have a great day.

[Skylark23]

Ahh you should not worry so much,she is with seems to be interested in you so isn't that the main thing!

My boyfriend has a "gut" to be fair he is 37 but I still find him very attractive and he floats my boat as they say. Its nice being with a guy that's a bit bigger, I some what feel more protected.Sometimes he tells me he is worried I find faults in his appearance but I do not and I have reassured him I don't.

So really just go for it, what have you got to lose eh?

[ShesMygirl]

Dude...I got the big build too. There are lots of women who look at us big guys and the thought is "teddy bear" UGH!

I hear it from my wife often.

Don't stress. Ask her out. If she rides find a nice place to cycle, then perhaps lunch/dinner out later. Use your bean bro. If you know of things that are fun and don't create that cornered feeling, or prevent conversation like the movies, ask her out.

Don't be the guy wondering what could have happened.

[Newskin01]

Wow you sound like a down to earth dude. I like you already. Thanks that is perfect advice I gotta take control and show her I'm fun and all that good stuff.

[ShesMygirl]

If you know the things you love to do, and you are comfortable with who you are......that is where confidence comes from.

LOL....I raised 5 kids mostly on my own.......between working as a couples councelor and dealing with my dating childerns issues I picked up a little. Life's a crap shoot. you get as many rolls as you care to take.

If you live in a large community look online. Most citys have all kinds of cool stuff going on that most people never know about. A lot of it is free as well.