Do I Need A Disclaimer?

[DolceViita]

This is a round about relationship question as its stopping me from getting closer to guys or having the confidence to approach ones I like.

Basically I've been overweight and I'm in the process of getting rid of the excess (-70lbs so far whoop whoop). Obviously with that amount of weight loss my body breast, stomach esp., arms etc don't look as they should (I'm only 24).

So my question is when/ how should I tell I guy "oh by the way I used to be really fat, but I've lost weight as a result my skin is sagging all over the joint"? I would hate to like some one, get close to them and feel them cringe/wince when they touch/see me...

I do take care of my skin moisturize twice a day and use bio oil even booked myself to get those body wraps so...I dunno. In clothes I feel I have the confidence of a super model but I know I'll have to take them off and reveal myself...

Any insight or advice would be much appreciated.

Much love

Updates

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**Thanks so much for answering my questions guys! much appreciated! I'm down 88lbs now whoop, hopefully, once I meet that guy there will be no holes barred :-)**

[Thiezz]

I'm sorry to see you didn't get any answers when you asked this question 3 days ago ;)

I don't think you should worry too much. Women tend to be way too critical of themselves and I doubt any guy will react the way you fear they might.

As for telling guys, I suggest you don't. You could tell them that you used to be heavier but lost a lot of weight, but there's absolutely no reason to tell them your skin is 'sagging all over the joint'. Guys, especially when they like you, are prepared to ignore a lot of things that you might consider horrible flaws, unless you complain about them.

[stercor]

Congratulations!
Your skin will tighten up, especially if you're as young as you are.
I topped out at 305lb (I couldn't put on a belt, I had to thread it through the loops before putting on my pants.)
I was on hospital food and exercise for other problems and got down to 220, and my skin never sagged. And I'm a _lot_ older than you. Check my profile.

Um,...lots of activities happen in the dark...

Returning your love,
Ted

[Anonymous]

Just really focus on taking it slow with a guy and being in a relationship before you have sex. A guy who is in love with you will let a lot of things slide. A guy who just wants sex will probably be the one who makes you feel badly for this situation.

[Thiezz]

Congratulations! :)