Why do guys have to be a**holes and put up an act??

[Anonymous]

to get girls ?

and why do most decent looking girls go for assholes?

[lonelysadguy]

alot of guys keep asking this question on here and what I found out is girls see it as guys being confident to get her and also dominance so ya we all know it sucks girls are just weird and stupid they think guys have to do the asking outs etc so girls get stuck with them stupid type of guys when girls can't understand that they can have any type of guy they want... and that stupid fairy tale crap that girls are into about the prince gets the princess ...also girls think that they can change a guy that's an asshole into a nice guy etc but of course they can't so they get trapped and hurt and then girls think all guys are like that. girls hate easy so they want a challenge. its also the powerful lion versus the little poor rabbit that gets eaten up... the lion being a powerful rich confident guy that ignores the girl and the little rabbit that gets eaten up is a shy guy that's poor but cuddleable etc. ya again it sucks cause I fit the poor rabbit type ... also again girls are stupid their brains aren't wired right for "real" love...alot of us guys can't still understand the way girls brains work ... I used to think, because girls are so beautiful that they are very sweet and gentle and that they wanted guys that fit my poor rabbit catagory etc but that's just on the outside I see girls inside are stupid, mean, and, go on dumb impulses like for example: a girl will only want a boyfriend when the girls female friends have one just to fit in and also guys can't attract girls unless the girl can get something out of it like money or whatever that doesn't have to do with love ...i know it sucks..girls can't love a guy girls can only want things from a guy .. I hope this helps you out cause a lot of things helped me out big time on this site to

[ihatework]

unfortunately too many girls go for those guys even though they deny it

[kkashmere22]

That and think about this too. If your a guy and you want to date this girl your not going to go up to her and be your a**hole self right? Your going to act like a nice guy in front of her so she will like you. And once you know she likes you then go back to being an a**hole because at this point you will know its too late in the game because by now feelings may be involved. I think that's why it mostly happens like that. All the real jerks pretend to be nice to get girls to like them.

[LuvBiddy]

Decent looking girls who go for a**holes are socially stupid, not always totally and completely stupid. They are impressed that he can stand up for himself but don't realize that he's a mean person in general.

[cristinaboss]

Cause girls are dumb. And a lot of the assholes happen to be really hot. And girls like to make other girls jealous by showing off their hot man candy.

[Asker]

But what if a guy is nice AND has a hot bod ?

[cristinaboss]

It's not all about the body... it includes a hot face and that's what makes a guy hot. But if that were the case, even a girl with half a brain would NOT go for an asshole when she has a guy who looks good and is a nice guy. If they do, then they seriously need therapy.

[Fourkaitlyn]

1. Not all guys are assholes.

2. Some girls are stupid.

[Fourkaitlyn]

Then all guys are assholes.

Including you, d***.

[cutekid]

No guys,neither all guys nor all girls are assholes or stupid,..

[cutekid]

Some are assholes,u cnt just tell why..

[dudeman]

decent looking but stupid.