Is this too much weight to lose?

[mnb108]

I'm 5'5" & lost 15 lbs about a month ago, but during the past month, I have gained like 5 lbs back, so I weigh 140.

I have pics posted on my profile, and I was wondering if I could get advice on whether I would be too skinny if I lost between 20-30 lbs?

I used to be really slender when I was a kid/preteen but stress in high school aided in a weight gain that I have kind of kept around for a while...not huge, but I'm not "thin" anymore and it really bothers me...plus, I will be getting married in about 19 months, so...My boyfriend says I'm fine, but I really don't feel comfortable in my own skin.

Tell me what you think! Please & thank you:)

[Anonymous]

You are kidding, right? Are you sucking in your gut in the profile picture? If not, your belly looks mostly slim, nearly parallel with your back, and you got sexy thick leg tone. You look fine! Delicious! Too bad you're getting married because now I want you!

Geez, what's wrong with women these days?

[mnb108]

lol...in the last month, I have worked out a total of 5 times...I am an avid runner, and when I can't run, it get stressed out & kinda depressed so I eat...I gained back some of the weight I worked so hard to lose...my tummy isn't completely flat because I have had a baby, but it's almost there...(at least at 135 it almost was). I just don't feel comfortable...It doesn't help that I'm a perfectionist& when you're used to being "thin" it's kinda upsetting. Just wanna be comfortable all the time

[Opinion Owner]

Could it be because you don't have D breasts? I hear women who have voluptuous legs like you are self-conscios because they don't have the breasts to go with it, thinking they look unbalanced or like a man before the mirror.

[mnb108]

lol. I do have D's. I do feel womanly..I have a huge ass & nice legs, plus my chest (I wouldn't have short hair if I felt even slightly unfeminine). I just want to throw on whatever I find in my closet & it look nice, not have to wear anything to cover anything up...etc. Plus, my boyfriend & I are really into watersports & I would like to be bikini ready for the summer/for our wedding next year.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay. You have D breasts, thick legs, big butt and a slim belly...in other words you're fully voluptuous but you're not used to be being that way. Well I can tell you this I prefer you as you are NOW then less weight than that. I'm crazy for full bodied women since they're prettier in public and in the bedroom. You also feel better when sitting on my balls. I don't like feeling a girls pelvis against me, least not unnaturally. You look great!

[mnb108]

Thank you...so if I'm trying to lose a little in the middle, how much weight would you say I should lose? I mean, I usually lose weight in the middle anyways...my legs & butt will not shrink...i tried lol.

I like being "thick" or whatever so that I look feminine & in shape, etc...I just want my tummy & middle to be thin.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't see that you need to lose any weight in the middle. I do notice some curvature, but that doesn't look bad. I'm not overweight myself, so that's not the reason I'm coming across like this, but I do understand that being a runner, surrounded by deeply slimmed belly girls can make you "feel" fat, it doesn't look that way to me. So I wouldn't put a number on it from what I see. If you see flab hanging, well you know stomach exercises can tighten that up like the flab under weak triceps.

[mnb108]

alright...well I'm going to continue running a put a smaller number on my weightloss & when I lose it, I will post pics...you'd be surprised at how much I can lose & look unaffected. lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay. Then with your permission I would like to masturbate to your photographs now and then. Is that okay?

[mnb108]

lmao.

ummm...i'm pretty sure my boyfriend has those pics on his phone & does the same, so...lol

just don't tell me about it!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you very much. Will do so now. But I just wanted to ask so as to be a civil gentleman, since I thought it would be rude to fantasize about you without your knowing.

[mnb108]

lol.

actually, my boyfriend probably doesn't use my pictures...he gets it almost every time he wants it.. & the only reason it isn't EVERY time is because my son rarely naps. haha.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, all done. That was quick. I, uh...feel like I owe you something now...perhaps some money?

[iveth]

i weight about the same I'm trying to loose 20 pounds because that's the weight I should b so I say just go for 20 or 15 don't b too skinny because now and days skinny isn't the look.

[xalliebellax]

20-30 pounds would be way too much to loose expecially for your height. don't worry you look fine!

[Anonymous]

If you lost 20-30 pounds you'd wither away to nothing. You look great.

[Anonymous]

Wait, you're 5'5 and you weigh 140 pounds? You look really good. You def do not need to lose 20 pounds.

[Anonymous]

You look too skinny, try gaining 20 Ibs instead of losing it.

[NineFrenchBoys]

you look hot. don't change anything.