Do I even have a chance with him?

[Anonymous]

He is tall, I am short. He is skinny I am kinda chubby. He is athletic, I kind of am,(Dancer). We only talk during our ONE class. He doesn't flirt with me so I am kind of bummed. No, he doesn't know I like him but I do. How can I get closer to him and do I even possibly slightly have a chance?

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+1 y

And I do have his number.

[twintwin5678]

Dancers are certainly athletic :) haha. Anyways you just need to get closer to him and his friends. Trust me getting closer to his friends will get him closer to you. Do you have any friends that are pretty close to him or any of his friends? Because if you do, you can have your friend set something up like going to the movies with a group. I think you definately have a chance. You need to start talking to him more and once you get close enough to feel comfortable to flirt, flirt!

[Asker]

I have like two friends that are closer to him than I am(: ha ha Could you give me tips to flirt?

[twintwin5678]

use them! ask them to help you with this. and honestly I'm not a big flirter myself (I used to be really shy...just opening up) see I'm like one step ahead of you in this whole thing I'm going for a guy that I thought I had no chance and all that but then with my friends who were closer to him, we got closer. from my experience you have to think of nothing else but you and him. and you need to keep it all about fun. running out of characters! what I did was google and youtube it. it helps!

[Asker]

thanks!

[twintwin5678]

no problem! add me as a friend if you have any other questions!

[Anonymous]

In my experience...and from what I have seen, Situations like these do not work out.

Only in movies and fantasy lands.

Men...well excuse me..guys...they are shallow just like girls. If they are fit and athletic and have a nice body...they will want thier mate to as well.

Call it natural selection.