What would you think of me?

[Anonymous]

Ok well I was wondering what would you think of someone who has some health problems. I have some health problems and I like a guy who also has some health problems, but I'm wondering guys, what would you think of a girl who has health problems such as asthma and a sleeping disorder. For example, I never get asked over to peoples houses or social events because I have to go to bed at seven thirty, and I'm sixteen. I also have ADHD and I'm the ' good noodle' in class, turns all my hw in, on time, ect. Would you think someone like this is weird? Or would you think that if they truly liked you that this wouldn't matter? Thanks!

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[Joe814]

Families and marriages would never remain if someone on the planet did not support long-term illnesses. Selfish people would think your weird I guess. I would let those anxieties go! Seriously, there are teenagers, adults who loose one or more limbs and they conduct happy lives with people they love and people they marry. Be choosy, look at what you have: Asthma can go away or be treated easily, sleep disorders can be treated by medication or most often by a c-pap. Don't tell everyone your business, show them who you are not what your "carrying as far as baggage." Everyone has baggage, cancer patients can loose their hair in treatments. Accept YOURSELF first. What is inside will come out. Be okay with you first, then see if anyone out there cares about you too. Good luck, keep your chin up! This will pass.

[WisterianNathan]

The only people that would be distracted from liking a person because they had ADHD are vain, look at only appearance, and would probably not be the person to have a relationship with. And then being the good girl, I don't see why that could be bad. I have a rediculously early bedtime as well so I know the feeling. I don't think you are weird in the slightest, from what you said.at my school at least, you would have been snatched up pretty quickly. I wouldn't be surprised if you get offers soon. Good luck

[WisterianNathan]

I don't know why school is a hyperlink. Strange...

[WisterianNathan]

I do not know why school has a hyperlink. Please disregard it if you want to

[Asker]

Thanks so much it's people like you that answer questions that keep this website alive. And for some reason school is always a hyperlink but I don't know why. Thanks again. :)

[Asker]

Thanks so much for answering it's people like you that answer questions that keep this website alive.

[Anonymous]

Dont think nothing of it.. I have a lot of mental problems like, split personality disorder (I have 3 personalitys) I have severe depression and I have schizophrenia plus I have a few health problems and I never had a problem with the whole dating thing.. if they really like you they would just over look all that..

[Asker]

Thanks so much it's helpful to me :)

[Asker]

Thanks so much it's really helpful.:)