Explain the trophy wife/girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Why is it acceptable for a average sometimes even poorly groomed, obnoxious asshole MAN to EXPECT the most gorgeous girl in the room. TOO often have I seen it happen. But Ugly girls get and are to expect no higher than less than average looking men.. EXPLAIN...I am very confused? Poorly groomed, obnoxious assholes insult women who are not STUNNING and make us feel terrible.. I don't get why you are licensed to be so cruel. Explain why MEN EXPECT jaw dropping women?

[Killfest400]

Because said poorly groomed, obnoxious men don't get anything, that's why. Every guy wants a beautiful woman- but that doesn't mean they'll get it. If they aren't willing to settle for less than perfect, then they'll just be single for eternity. It's acceptable because it's his choice and it doesn't affect us in any way.

It's the same with overweight, shut-in girls. They can wait for Prince Charming all they like, but that doesn't mean he'll ever come riding up on his white stallion to whisk her away to Happily Ever After. Plenty of them are bitchy, too- and again, they don't get anything because guys don't want a bitch.

You can go for whatever you want, but unless you're reasonable with your demands, you'll never get it.

[makesumwake]

ok, I can tell you right now for a fact that the guys who insult you probably arnt trying to hurt you, they probably just feel intimidated and being rude is their way of trying to act tough or like they don't care if you hurt them.

second, there are plenty of average/normal guys, but they just arnt the ones approaching you. the guys doing the approaching are probably the arogant / rude / socially clueless ones.

third, men are judged on their power / social status / wealth / confidence mostly, while women are judged on their looks. that's why its common to see attractive women with sub-standard looking men.