Am I out of his league?

[Anonymous]

heyy so this guy I like is pretty cool but the thing is he's SUPER skinny, I absolutely LOVE my body I'm not fat or anything but I've got curves :P the problem is it makes me feel like I'm the -man- out of the two of us I don't act weird ar different with him because of that but it just makes me feel uncomfortable knowing that I could steal his lunch money if I wanted to :P does he feel the same way, like do guys notice when a girl has more meat on their bones then they do?

[HotPepper302]

Good question! But I'd have to go with no. I don't think they're really aware of it -- they're too distracted staring at your butt/boobs/face/hot curvy bod. :) Just be confident the way you are. If a guy likes you, he likes you... If he doesn't, he doesn't. Everyone's different. It just depends on the guy. I don't think it has anything to do with how he perceives himself, though. It's more to do with whether or not you're a generally attractive person, which I'm sure you are! :) Go for it! You never know until you try, and if he hasn't given you any signs of disinterest, then I wouldn't worry too much about it.

[Asker]

ahh thank you! that's really helpful :) your totally right, as long as I'm attractive he probably doesn't care :P

[Jason7]

If I'm attracted to a girl, that's all that matters to me. I don't care if she is taller, shorter, bigger or skinnier. And I have been attracted to all of the above.

[foolycooly1001]

1. that's not what out of his league means. leagues are all 10 scale

2. why doesn't he carry a weapon? being stronger than someone doesn't mean much