Did I hurt his feelings?
I was texting with the guy I'm chasing, and he was telling me that he likes my curves. He has some too, though he's lost a good bit of weight. I told him that I appreciate his curves as well and always have, and then he didn't respond after that. Do you think I hurt his feelings? I intended for it to be wholly complimentary because I have always been attracted to him, pre-weight loss and after. I honestly like a little extra on a dude. I wanted him to know that, but I fear it may have backfired...
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Speaking as a guy who was once 50 lbs overweight, yeah you might have made him self-conscious. The nice thing about guys is that you can be direct with us. Tell him what you just told a bunch of strangers on the internet :)
What Guys Said 1
yes you are
What Girls Said 2
You told a GUY you appreciate his CURVES? Ouchie! Yeah I think you might've hurt him! :(
Ummmm, it might have. Maybe he's a little sensitive about that. Or he could have just been busy doing something else. I think you should talk to him about it though and see what happened