So heartbroken and lost.

[hrtbrkn1993brt]

its been awhile since me and my ex broke up. and I'm usually pretty good at getting over people. but he's the first person that I can't get over. I cry at least once a week over him. and I feel pathetic. I can honestly say I think I fell in love with him and I still am. I would do anything to have him back we both played a part and why we broke it. it wasn't a messy breakup at all. but I would do anything for this kid. and he talks to almost all his exes but me and I don't get why I'm any different. can someone please help me ?

[ambitiousdevil88]

Know how you feel :( there's always the one you can't seem to manage to get over.

I find the best way to cope is to set about improving yourself :) having inner strength helps me deal with it, and know that I am going to move on because at the end of the day life goes go on and you have to move with it.

Find out what you want to do, do things you didn't have the confidence to do before, set yourself a challenge. And general things help too, get fit, improve diet and go out with your friends. Sitting thinking back is not going to help, no matter how good the meories maybe. And whenever you feel a though drifting into your brain distract yourself, find something to block it, something happy and funny tends to work best.

If he cant' see how great you are then he isn't the guy you think him to be. It takes a while but you start to see that. Make yourself the number one person in your life. Good luck and all the best in the future :)

[smokahontas]

well I used to have a boyfriend who I was madly in love with but bascially we were infatuated,we even thought of getting married and I was 15 at this time and I would cry literally every single day for a whole month.I don't think it would be a good thing to get back with him but if you still really like him then no one should ever stop you.You should probably talk to other men and hang out with them/or maybe even go out with to get your mind off of him, and never put yourself down, be the pretty,confident girl you are!.A song that helps me really well after relationships is: I will survive by gloria gaynor.Your still young so don't let just one guy you really love or still love get you down...sometimes its best to move on :l

[Mixed28]

Listen hun I have been there and it sucks. I got dumped by a girl I loved with all my heart. But look you want someone who is head over heels for you as you are for them. You don't want someone who doesn't want you because that is not true love. Its best to walk away from the situation. I suggest you exercise that's what I did and still do it helps a lot with confidence. or do some other goal. Its so hard I know it is complete hell. But keep busy and it will hurt a little less each day. I promise.

[leetaylor]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm in the same boat, if it helps. I've never felt loss like this. I cry every morning, I miss her so much. We were together for three years, and it's been almost two months since we talked. I don't understand it very well, but some suggest that the more meaningful the relationship was, the harder it is continue contact initially. Maybe with some more time you'll get a chance to reconnect. That's what I'm hoping for. It's going to suck for awhile though.

[ZuriRenee]

I have been in the same before only a few months ago it was so hard to get over him the reason we broke up was because he wouldn't stop talking to other girl and I wanted him back so bad after we broke up I missed him with everything I couldn't stop thinking of him those eyes how he told me I was beautiful and how he said he loved me but he wanted other girls too not just me I had to move and that's what you need to do it's hard at first to think of yourself with someone else you might have been in love with him maybe that love wasn't supposed to last forever but for a short time

[Anonymous]

"I 'm all out of love, I'm so lost without you

I know you were right believing for so long

I 'm all out of love, what am I without you

I can't be too late to say that I was so wrong"