Am I wrong for not wanting to date him?

[Anonymous]

I am friends with a great guy who is nice and respectful, you know, everything you would want.. However, he's overweight and shorter than me. He has asked me out twice and I've declined, just saying I prefer to stay friends. Is it wrong of me to not want to date him because he is shorter than me and overweight? I'm really not some stuck up person, but I don't know if I can look past this :/

[Anonymous]

Why would you be wrong for not being attracted to the guy? Don't feel guilty, we all have standards. If he did not think you were attractive I bet he would not have asked you out. You're not gonna like every guy who likes you back, it's okay it's life lol. No guilt necessary!

[vmw2008]

Not at all. There's not a single guy on this planet that would date a girl they were completely unattracted to, so you're not wrong for feeling the same. There has to be some attraction or it's not a relationship, it's a friendship.