Soooo my boyfriend says my boobs are too big for him :(

im 16 and my breast size is 34 h and my boyfriend would like them to be medium b. He refuses to do anything with me because he thinks they are so ugly. so what can I do to reduce my size?
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  • ok, first of all, that is a really big size. it's understandable that some guys *prefer* a woman to look how they want, but if he is refusing to do things with you because of it, that is venturing into the realm of him being an a**hole. there is no problem with you unless YOU think there is a problem, not him. I'm a little chunky, but if a guy said he didn;t want to do things with me because I was too fat for him, he wouldn;t even get the last half of the sentence out before I would be out the door. however, that said, if you are really set on decreasing your breast size, try sports bras or other tight-fitting bras that offer a lot of support. my guess though, judging by the size you listed, is that sports bras might not be all too effective. short of surgery (which I would never recommend just to make some whiny boy happy with you) I think you'll just have to learn to be happy with yourself.

    • I agree totally!

  • first of all hun, 34 h is not a breast size. but whether you meant B, C, or D. who cares, this guy is not worth it. if he has an ideal image of what you should look like rather than liking you for who you are, boob size and all, then screw him, you deserve better. believe me sweetie, there are many guys out there who would be more than happy with a set of big boobs. if I were you id say something like, well these are my boobs so either be happy with them or find someone else, and then id probably make a comment that you're not exactly happy with his penis size but you still deal with it, but that's just me ;)

    • Haha! I loved your last suggestion "make a comment you're not exactly happy with his penis size."

    • Haha. yeah. I'd tell him the same thing. you are who you are. don't change for him. if he can't handle that dump his ass.

    • Im sure that 34 h is a size because I have bras that are that size. But otherwise than that thank you for your suggestions.

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  • Your boyfriend is an asshole, I think you should reduce your actual relationship with him. No guy should be calling any part of your body ugly or criticizing you. Don't we do that enough to ourselves? He doesn't even deserve to touch you honestly.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Are you kidding!? Dump that dumb f***er! If he doesn't want to mess around with you because of something that a lot of guys would think is really sexy, then there as absolutely no reason for the two of you to be staying together while your self esteem plummets. Feel good about yourself. Leave the jerk.

  • That's something he shouldn't say =/

    Don't reduce the size of your boobs for him, don't even worry about this subject at all. If you like him, just forget about what he said and if he mentions it again then tell him what ally suggested :P

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  • Don't fix your size, fix your boyfriend. There are plenty, plenty, plenty of guys who are willing to appreciate your shape. Make your man sweat a little, pretend you're playing the field. He'll learn to like your boobs.

  • Fucking jackhole! Dump his ass.

  • You can find a new boyfriend.

  • that dudes a retard

  • DUMP that f***ing asss!

    if he doesn't like you the way you are screw him!

    you should love yourself the way you are and the person you are going to date better too!