When it comes to a woman that a guy wants to spend his time with and devote himself to, he will either look for something a bit different or just pile more qualities on top of what he's already looking for when he's having fun.
Best Personality Attributes:
-Sense of Humor
If you can take a joke, that's great. If you can MAKE a joke, DAMN!
-Intelligent
If you have goals and aspirations and can hold a meaningful conversation, great. Just don't make him think you're too smart or else he'll be turned off cause he might feel intimidated.
-Supportive
As much as women THINK that men are some fortress of cold steel with a scary grimace, guys can be quite sensitive. Let him know that you think the world of him and he'll give you world in return.
-Outgoing
Remember how you wanted to take him to all those little things that he didn't wanna see or do? He's going to ask you to do AT LEAST thing he really enjoys doing, watching, or playing. Oblige him once in a while.
-Honest
A little honesty never hurts. If you're going out with friends and he asks about it, just be honest and tell him. Though he may not enjoy what he's going to hear 100% of the time, he will greatly appreciate you for being up front with him. Beating around the bush and telling little lies can destroy a relationship.
Best Physical Attribute (My Personal Opinion):
-Butt
For the most part, guys like butts. Sir Mix-A-Lot isn't lying...
-Legs
A women with silky smooth skin on beautifully shaped legs that go on for miles is a gift from God, in the eyes of a man. If you have the legs, and there is a particular guy you are interested in, flaunt them once in a while.
-Breasts
This is a given. No straight guy will ever tell you he doesn't like boobs. If he does, he's lying so he seems like he's "different". The real truth is that not all guys like boobs best. Some guys say boobs are number 1. Others could care less, as long as there is something there. But the rule of thumb, in general, is that if they're big enough to fit in a guy's hand they're good enough.
-Tummy
We normally don't touch on this subject, but if a woman has a tight tummy, or at least a nicely shaped one, it can make a man drool. So, if you have it, wear something tight or something a bit revealing to show it off to that special someone once in a while. If you haven't, it could be something to take into consideration.
-Eyes
A woman can have an average body, or sometimes, even a less than average body. But something that can make the difference are a woman's eyes. A beautiful set of eyes can lure a man from across a room without a single word. You don't have to put on the fake lashes or pile on the liner and mascara. Those are just to assist, but are often overdone and can be very unattractive. It's all above movement, angle, and eye contact.
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When it comes to a woman that a guy wants to spend his time with and devote himself to, he will either look for something a bit different or just pile more qualities on top of what he's already looking for when he's having fun.
Worst Personality Traits:
-Stuck Up
Are you one of those girls who is into having all the latest fashions and trends and makes your man hold her purse and doesn't give a damn when he tells you anything that is on his mind because you're self-absorbed and have this huge ego? WAKE UP! If he isn't complete sissy, he's going to drop your bags and bid you farewell.
-Motor Mouth
It's common sense when it comes to the amount of talking guys are generally accustomed to. We just don't talk as much as women. In most cases, men cut to the chase and get to the point. Women, share details and share thoughts and ideas in order to get to the point and then go into further details that may be locked in a man's subconscious. So, when you want to talk to your man about something, it's okay to share details, but try not to drown him in words because he'll likely become bored and lose interest. Ever wonder why he seems like he doesn't care?
-Dishonesty
A little honesty never hurts. If you're going out with friends and he asks about it, just be honest and tell him. Though he may not enjoy what he's going to hear 100% of the time, he will greatly appreciate you for being up front with him. Beating around the bush and telling little lies can destroy a relationship, especially if it's one of those lies about something or someone you know he cannot stand. On top of that, women expect their men to be open and honest as well. So, don't expect him to be truthful to you if you can't do the same for him.
-Dry Humor
Guys love a woman who can tell a joke and make him laugh. It's sexy! If you're one of those woman who just can't tell a joke or can never get the punchline right, it's okay. He's not going to be let down. As long as you can appreciate a joke, he will still fawn over you. But if you can't take a joke, you haven't got much time left. If you're the type of woman who doesn't enjoy jokes, don't bother trying to change him. He will leave you.
-Dumb
If you're one of those people who thinks that London is a country or that Canada is in Europe, you need to go and get yourself an education. Enough said...
5 worst:
1: Manipulative
2: bitchy for no reason other then to bitch
3: they constantly compete, and competition is OK, as long as it doesn't scream desparate
4: Too many girls want to 'fit' there stereotype, why not prove everyone wrong that you're not a dim witted air head, cause us other girls can see it you know.
5: They are more likely to be fake to your face,and then bitch about you behind your back.
( I know you have 5, but I can come up with six)
6: we obsess WAY too much over how we look, and in the end we end up with girls who from a far we probably couldn't tell them apart.
5 best:
1: we generally have good hygiene
2: We can usually see people for what they are. So know whose faking with us
3: We are brilliant friends to our friends (most of us wouldn't cheat and lie on the ones we are closest too, but that's not complete fact)
4: All though a bad trait, manipulation is something we do, do well, and better then men, definitley
5: We are a lot more understanding when it comes to people different likes and dislikes, I find men will take the mickey if his guy mate likes something weird, but us girls can find it something to discuss rather then just knock back..(probably goes we like gossip and we like to talk about our experiences)
best qualities in a person:
1. they have morals
2. they have good work ethic
3. They really are good with money/savings
4. they groom well
5. they are thoughtful and considerate
worst qualities:
1. they have bad grooming, bad yellow teeth and smells like rotten eggs
2. they have terrible work ethics and live off anyone they can
3. they suck with money and have so much debt that they are always bankrupt, and terrible credit scores that they will never be able to buy a house :( and they can't keep a job if their life depended on it
4. not so thoughtful and considerate and terrible morals (stealing, lying, cheating etc)
5. terrible lifestyle like they spend all their money on booze and weed.
1. Humor
2. Kind
3. Cute
4. Sweet
and 5. understanding
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I'd like to give 6 of each, because there's some extra ones that are worth noting.
Worst:
1. Violent. This should go without saying, but sadly in this world it needs to be said. Some people will try to brush off a woman's violent behavior because she's a woman, but this is highly destructive and will lead to broken relationships and broken people. NEVER let yourself become this type of woman.
2. Arrogant. Nothing takes an otherwise attractive woman to completetely repulsive like arrogance does. And because arrogance stops you from seeing the areas in yourself that need improving, the most arrogant people are often those with the least to be proud of.
3. Hateful. It's one thing to be angry from time to time, and if it motivates you to confront a problem in a controlled and rational way then anger can be positive, but do not allow yourself to hate people; it'll harm you even more than it harms them. This is the attitude that leads to violence.
4. Feminist. The modern version of feminism tries to instill a sense of victimhood in order to stir outrage leading to action, with a 'the ends justify the means' approach that brushes off any all all harm done as justified. Intersectionality teaches that racism and sexism against previously dominant groups in society is justified, and as such is a highly vindictive approach. When we get the chance to step back and look at the larger course of human society, I think many people will be surprised at just how much harm was done to men and women alike by feminism.
5. Self-centred. If there is no room in your life for a man then how do you expect to have a relationship with one? If you have no time to spend together with him, then you relationship will inevitably fail.
6. Indirect. This is not as bad as the others but I think it's worth mentioning as a more common mistake. Most men most of the time do not know what you are thinking. If you are relying on him picking up subtle hints you'll just end up frustrated that he doesn't understand you and he won't know why you're mad at him. Tell him straight up what you like and what you don't.
Best:
1. Honest. It's been mentioned here already, but honesty is key to a lasting relationship.
2. Loyal. Not just not cheating, even just defending him from negative remarks can make a big impression on a man. If there are genuine problems in the relationship then obviously address them, but if the only thing he does wrong is put the toothpaste back without the cap on then don't let people put him down.
3. Kind. A woman who takes action to make the lives of the people around her better will attract people to her. Note: not the same as caring what everyone thinks about you, which can become negative.
4. Courageous. Not to be confused with aggressive selfishness, which is also called 'assertiveness' nowadays. Courage is taking the risk to be a little vulnerable with someone who might end up hurting you. It's related to honesty in speaking the truth about something you're not totally comfortable talking about. It's telling that guy you like him even if he might turn you down.
5. Feminine. Some people reading this might immediately think, "What even is femininity?", which is why I wanted to include and explain it. Femininity begins when you recognize that men and women are different biologically and will tend to think and act differently because of it. It means not thinking you have to compete with a man's strengths in order to be valuable, and focusing on your own strengths instead. It means respecting a man's contribution to the relationship as being equally valuable to yours although it takes a different form.
6. Horny. This might seem like an odd inclusion, but if most men are being honest they'd say this is a plus (as long as she's loyal). Except in very specific and rare circumstances men will find it highly complimentary and affirming that the woman he loves often wants to be sexually intimate with him.1 always try to look good for your man, or partner. it goes both ways. when a man is at work all day seeing other women randomly some hot, some not, the last thing we want is to come home to sweat pants. Obviously you don't have to look like a million bucks all the time but at least regularly. Or at least cute sweat pants and a cute tank top. FYI girls WOMEN'S DRESS SLACKS ARE SUUUUUCH A TURN ON.
#2 we like compliments too. We like to hear how a shirt looks on us, or if we look hot, or if were turning you on etc. It reassures us were still lookin good enough for you.
#3 a little bit of spice. Only having sex at bed time gets monotonous. Spice it up. Walk around in nothing but one of our shirts once in a while, tackle us in the middle of the afternoon, sneak in to the shower with us etc. You get the point. Men connect with they're women from physical touch. Its a proven fact. You want to keep us drooling, don't let things get to routine and stale.
#4 a women that can be grouchy or moody but in a cute way is a turn on and will always get you sympathy. Being nice and cute and a simple I'm feeling moody or pms so watch out babe. Maybe a sexy hug and a kiss. That reassures us you are simply that, grouchy etc. Not our fault, you still love us, but you are feeling what your feeling.Worst qualities
1. Mental-met a lot of women that have lied about being raped, pretend to be sick or injured all the time for sympathy. Or can't take a joke even if it is about a sensitve subject.
2. overly sensitive- cries about anything and everything
3. attention whores - flirts with to many guys, always on their cell phones, has 1000 friends on Facebook and doesn't really know a single one of them.
4. Fashion junkies - Always has to have nails and hair done, if you look orange from tanning to much or fake tan spray, only wears brand name clothing, has way to over priced purses, or over sized purses (f*cking retarded...you going camping?), oh...too much makeup = disgusting. If you leave makeup on my hoody when you lean on my shoulder...then get the f*uck away from me and wash my hoody.
5. don't eat - girls that are to afraid to eat, or girls that think taking diet pills and just drinking water 24/7 is a good way to lose weight.
Best
1. Girl that can be sexy- girl that knows how to be sexy without dressing like a slut. I have seen some damn sexy girls in tshirts and sweatpants.
2. Has a job- and is willing to chip in sometimes
3. Has a car - and can take care of it properly...can change a tire, change the oil (oil does not last 17000 miles), puts the right gas in the car. If it calls for 93 octane...put 93 in moron. You actually get worse gas milage on the wrong gas.
4. can hold a conversation - without being a moron. at least pretend you have an IQ.
5. don't be party girl-drugs and getting drunk every weekend = huge turn off. oh and going to clubs dressed like a cheat hooker every other weekend = deal breaker!the 5 best.
1- body- seriously, the most beautiful thing in this world is a girls body
2- tolerance- somebody who will hear a joke and will joke right back
3- cuddly- someone who won't mind ONLY cuddling and watching a movie
4- massage- won't mind having their back rubbed/scratched randomly
5- trustworthy- got to have trust
the 5 worst
1- attention whore- I hate being around girls that need to be the center of attention
2- complains- I don't want to hear them complain about nearly everything
3- serious- If she can't understand humor, then what's the point?
4- self centered- absolutely hate it when a girl thinks she's better than most
5- sub concious- I don't like it when a girl needs to be constantly told that nothings wrong with their appearanceThe 5 best...
1) Low maintainance - doesn't demand royal treatment, doesn't try to make your life difficult
2) Intelligance - Nobody wants a girl with the I.Q of a cardboard box
3) Humour - Somebody who'll laugh at my amazingly high level of hilariousness
4) Good looks - Needs no explaination
5) Caring/Loving - Needs no explaination
The 5 worst...
1) High maintainance - Ha, you're not going to last long
2) Insecurity - Constantly reasurring a girl of her looks, your reason for being with her kills the relationship
3) Vainity - You're attractive... but I'm better looking than you are
4) Lack of humour/disgracefully serious - Have you ever tried to entertain a pair of curtains? It's soul destroying
5) Selfishness - This is a quality I hate in all people not just womenBad: 1: if your not straight forword enough then that's just annoying we don't like to guess everything 2:When you won't share things with your boy friend or best guy friend that just pisses some of us off 3: don't point out how other guys are hot especially if you know that the person your ssaying that to likes you more then a friend 4: if the guy offers to pay for something let him! its a small kindness 5: don't be to stingy with the compliments guys will praise you but its nice to get an "oh you look great" every now and then.
Good 1: girls who are just modest enough to not be sluts but can still have fun in a pool in a bikini around friends 2: a girl who isn't affrade to say no there are lines that shouldn't be crossed because then when a guy goes way to far its just as uncomfortable for us as it is for you 3: a girl who smiles alot, always a pluss 4: a girl who is nice even to the people she doesn't like 5: honesty, I hate when girls lie and or are not strait forwardBest Qualities:
1. Dam Sexy (majority)
2. Tight but
3. Breasts that haven't been tampered with ( that sounds kind of wrong)
4. Passionate personality
5. Not super skinny, but slim
Worst Qualities:
1. Nagging
2. Refusal to sex
3. Relationship talks (lol)
4. Confusing
5. ComplicatedBest
1 confident- doesn't constantly ask if she's hot or not all the time, and sulky and depressed, I hate that sh*t
2 intelligent - doesn't make me wanna shoot myself when I talk about something somewhat intelligent, so I don't have to correct her all the time
3 cute face
4 energetic- mainly in the sack, so iam not doing all the work
5 nice- average body- I don't mind a little chub
worst
1 needy- has to talk to you over 5 times a day
2 smothery
3 bitchiness
4 pms
5 lazinessBest:
1.Fun loving and atheletic
2. Intelligent / Smart
3. Speak 2 - 3 languages or more
4. Open-minded. -both to religion and races
5. Kind and caring
6.Sense of humor
Worst:
1.Muscular - I know some women are :P
2.Ignorant - they are hard to talk to
3.She doesn't know how to cook
And actually there's much but those are enoughWow this is easy let me keep it simple.
Best
1 One that is capable of love
2 One that isn't selfish
3 Logical
4 Likes sex
5 Looks good
Worst
1 Hypocritical
2 Sexist
3 Feminist
4 Nagging
5 BiasBQ
1. Smiles a lot (happy) - not creepy lol
2. Street smart
3. Cute/pretty face
4. Shares my sense of humour
5. Nice curvy body
WQ
1. Sarcasm
2. Drama with other girls
3. Refusal to be happy(long story)
4. antisocial
5. lazy1. Trustworthy
2. Considerate
3. Sure of who she is and what she wants
4. Easy to be around
5. Sexy (I don't mean "Hot" and mean SEXY... BIG difference. Most "Hot" girls are NOT SEXY).
Can you please have a look at and help me with my question? It's titled "On a break and need a females opinion".5 best:
sweet personality
wide hips
wide hips
wide hips
wide hipsBest -
1. Like-mindedness
2. Face (particularily eyes and smile)
3. Amorousness
4. Butt
5. Legs
Worst -
1. Sarcasm (yuck!)
2. Cold-hearted
3. Shorter than 5'3 (Napoleon complex sucks)
4. Obsessed with money and possessions
5. Bad teethbest
1.in love with you
2.loyal
no need to have anymore
worst
1.cheater
2.lier
nothing else neededbest
-smile
-eyes
-butt
-boobs
-hair ? lol
worst
-pms
-bipolar
-periods
-flat
-no butt1. Loyalty
2. Honesty/integrity
3. Kindness/caring
4. Adventuresome/funloving/happy
5. A smoking hot, thin body with a tight ass and great big boobs.1. nice ass
2. nice teeth
3. sense of humor
4. good in bed
5. considerate
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