What should I do, Stay or Leave?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I've been with this guy for around 6 months now, we're not official or anything so we're both getting with other people. But if we're both out we end up together most of the time, however there's this girl that he's been getting with a lot and whenever she's out and I'm out he always goes to her and pretends I'm not even there! Should I continue to get with him or just forget him? I know I like him waaay more then he likes me?

[Anonymous]

I think you should leave before you get really hurt. If he's more interested in this other girl, forget him! Also, having many sexual partners gives you a greater risk of HIV and AIDS, so you are putting your health at risk being with a guy with many partners and then you yourself having other partners.

[WantsMore]

Ouch, dangerous ground! If you like him more than he likes you, and he knows this, you are setting yourself up for a fall. If he is choosing someone else over you, then you are better off biting the bullet now, and walking away before you get really hurt.

[Asker]

Ya I know you're right, but when this other girl isn't out he pays his full attention to me and I can't really resist..and whenever I do try to walk away he always asks me why but I don't want to tell him the truth because to start off we were just together for the fun of it, thanks for the advice though, I know you're right!

[WantsMore]

I'm sorry to say this, but he pays you full attention when the other girl isn't there, because she isn't there. That means you are his second choice. This guy is getting away with having his cake, and eating it. For your own sanity and self respect, don't continue to get played!

[acka72]

Agree with you.