Should I break up with boyfriend of four years?

[chantelsunshine50]

I just got a job as dental claims person. Its a really good job. I need to save up for school and buy a new car so I was thinking if I move back home I could live there for free and would be easier to save up. My boyfriend treats me like sh*t, I supported him when he had no job for six months, and I was without a job for the past month and he wined saying I need to get a job right away so I can help him fix his teeth! when I supposted him I needed to save money for school, but I put my wants aside to supposrt him! now when I needed to be supposted he got mad and said he couldnt. Now that I have a job he expects me to help him save up for his teeth to get fixed, when I need to save money for school anbd a new car myself. I feel like he is holding me back? so should I break up with him and move backj qwith my parents to save faster?

[Anonymous]

Well I think you already know the answer to this..break up with him

I think he needs you to support his laid back lifestyle which is unacceptable. A relationship is based on mutual respect for one another, and it's clear to see that he hasn't got that much for you.

What does he do with his time?

Does he look for work, or slouch with his friends all day.

Do you think of getting married with this man?

Well what's the point?!

You seem you have standards for yourself and he has none, do yourself a favor call your parents, move your belongings, and move on with your life. This man hasn't got the same goals as you and that is a key ingredient when looking for a partner.

Whatever he was, he's not the same man anymore, he needs to fix himself without you.

Hope it works out:)

[Phoenix52]

You've been with him for four years. I bet you won't do it, because despite all the logical stuff saying how much of a bum he's using you for, you still love him with all your heart.

[TinkyLaWinky]

Have you told him how he makes you feel?

If you have and he is not willing to change or you have not seen a change than you should end it.

I was in a horrible relationship for 4 1/2 years and he thought I was always going to be around, so did I.

We broke up and I found the sweetest guy ever! If I had not broken up with my ex I would never have known a better love.

There are so many guys out there that won't take you for granted. That will treat you how you deserve.

* Just think. Since you guys are dating now, what do you think marriage with him would be like*

He is not showing you he loves you.

[greyy]

yes, he is holding you back, you need to decide what you really want in life and choose between your goals or your boyfriend. good luck hun!

[TyroneJayJackson]

Yeah he shouldn't be with you if he treats you like sh*t and expects you to do everything for him. You should dump him and move away.

[playa_pan]

Obviously.

He's a piece of sh*t and a sore loser.

Forgot him and find someone else.