What do I do to get him back 2 months after he dumped me?

[993099142]

This guy usually only dates pretty girls and I am kind of obese, however he is obsessed with finding a girl who will submit to him, and I LOVE Being submissive, He's been rejected by 300 girls but to me, he is the man of my dreams. We used to kiss and make out for hours and then he cut me out of his life after 3 months without any reason or explanation. I went from seeing him twice a week, to not at all.

September 7th was the last time that he was over at my house that I saw him.

September 28th was the last time I called him after he stopped repying to my phone calls

October 5th was the day he took me off his friend's list on facebook

October 24th was the day I sent him a text message that he didn't reply to.

October 28th was the day I sent him an e-mail.

How do I get him back now? Wouldn't it look weird, if I didn't talk to him for a long time and then just all of a sudden out of the blue started contacting him again?

This May I lost 40 pounds in 2 monhts on the atkins diet. So I thought I could go on it again, and lose another 80 pounds. It might take me 3 months to get down to my ideal weight. Then I thought I could call him after I lost the weight, and let him see the new "me." What do you think?

[SteveBoogie]

This is not a promising situation, I'm afraid. You're not going to want to hear this but it's sound advice and I'm going to give it to you anyway. By the time you get to that goal weight, your confidence is going to be higher and you're going to meet better guys than this douche anyway. You've tried every method of contact available and have not received return contact. He's moved on. Lose the weight for YOURSELF, not for this guy who just plain doesn't care. Maybe you will still be interested in getting back with him when you've lost the weight. Worry about that when the time comes. If it takes thinking about him to motivate you to lose the weight, think about him, but I'm being realistic here. He's not interested right now and the more you try to contact him the more you're going to drive him away. If you MUST try again in a few months after you've lost all that weight (which is extremely unhealthy to do in that short period of time), try again then. But whatever you do, make sure you don't try to contact him until that point.

[wally]

try to call him you don't have anything to lose , at least you show him that you care about him maybe he was going through a tough time .