Should I run away from home?

Question

My mom started yelling at me because I was complaining about my mouth hurting because I recently got my wisdom teeth removed and I can't really eat because it hurts and the pain killers really have no affect on me. I started crying because I was in so much pain and nothing we did helped and all and when I started crying my mom started yelling at me and telling me I was "so (she used the F word) annoying" and I should leave the house and go somewhere else because I was getting on her nerves and I was "being a baby about it". She kept yelling and I ran up to my room slammed and locked the door and now I'm crying a lot because I honestly think she hates me.

It's storming here and I really don't care, I'm thinking about running away to a friends house and then maybe my mom will be sorry she ever said that to me. I can take care of getting myself to the friends house I'm old enough to take care of myself. Should I do it?

P.s. My moms on her period and she's a bitch when she's on her period. I think I should just make ger suffer a little if she's gonna be mean to me like that.

spartanqueen26 · Accepted Answer

your still young sweetie and don't understand much about life yet, by you running away just because of something simple like this is not going to fix anything at all, plus if I am not mistaking you said your mom is on her monthly. its normal for women to act that way during that time, you just need to go take a nice walk and calm down, and trust me things are going to work out! trust me you may feel like your mother doesn't love but the truth is she loves you dearly its just she's probably dealing with allot of stress right now. try to give her some space by doing something you enjoy! :)

P.S. you need to be able to handle little problems like this, because when you get older life gets harder and it won't be something like your mother yelling at you. it would be something like dealing with paying lots bills and taking care of your future husband and kids. and dealing with all there problems and helping them out, you won't have time for yourself and would be under allot of stress, and then you will understand what your mother is going through, its not easy to be a mother a wife and to work. but don't get me wrong it is a beautiful thing in life. plus you need to know that the older you get the harder the problems are going to be and more responsibilities. just remember your mother gave birth to you and loves you very much :)

and its all gonna work out.

WovenEclipse · Accepted Answer

I totally get where your coming from and everything, but when everything has calmed down I think both you and your mother will realize all the arguing was a little bit over the top, well I have to say that running away because of that seems a bit rash. You both have your reasons for being prickly with each other, but when your mums periods have passed and the pain from your teeth go away you'll both feel better ^_^

Electric_Dreams · Accepted Answer

They all say that. "I can take care of myself I don't need my parents. I don't ever want to see her again. She lost her temper with me over something trivial (but of course I've never done that) so therefore I should run away from home."

No. Don't be stupid. You can be immature because you are. But don't be stupid. You run away from home when one of your parents physically and/or sexually abuses you. I remeber a girl came and lived with us when she was about your age and I was a kid because her dad did some nasty stuff like that to her. That's why you leave home, when it's actually not safe to be there.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Awww kid, I'm sorry! That sounds like it sucks. Don't worry, the pain will go away soon. Maybe see your doctor to get a different pain killer.

As to your mom, you'll be able to get the hell out of there and go to college pretty soon. Just hang in there in the meantime and try to spend as much time out of the house doing fun and interesting things as you can. Don't do anything drastic that could jeopardize your future.

tyt_2012 · Answer

I don`t think you should run away from home. You`re under 18 and a female, you wouldn`t be able to take care of yourself out there without running into a lotta crap. I get crap from my parenst all the time, that doesn`t mean I`m going to run away from home. Running away from home won`t be worth it. You`ll just make things worser for yourself if you do.

queenofpeen · Answer

No, don't run away. It won't help anything, and it won't make her treat you better. You'll just lose her trust. I know the whole situation sucks (my mom goes through insanely bitchy phases, too), but it's temporary. She's probably just stressed, whether about you or something else entirely.

Wait and see how you feel tomorrow. Maybe once you've both calmed down, you can bring it up and tell her that it hurts when she says stuff like that.

cjwright79 · Answer

No need to run away ... just take a breather away from the house for an hour or two.

Elmo420 · Answer

sure go ahead if you reallly want to  just keep this in mind   the secoond the cops find you because she will almost guarenteely[made up word] call them     you are going to jail for no less than 2 months  at least that's the sentance here

udolipixie · Answer

If you want to go ahead. Just save up money beforehand.

helpagirloutlol · Answer

i say when she is cranky just don't give in to her if you know she is gonna argue just say OK and walk away. you will be old enough to leave b4 you know it. like the other person said just keep savin your money and when the time comes lik18 say peace

SonicBoomBoom · Answer

Sounds like your Mom is quite hateful. I sure wouldn't want to be her neighbour.

Anonymous · Answer

No.

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