Lose some weight, honey!!! Have you ever asked someone to lose weight?

[Niraandaa]

A simple question. Would you ever ask/tell your girlfriend/boyfriend to lose weight and if yes, for which reason? and have you ever asked/told someone to lose weight?

[Anonymous]

yes I would tell him because he might want to know if I am getting fatter or not. He's really afraid I might get fatter, and says if I do then I better start running because he doesn't want me to be fat. I am 5'3 and weigh about 120 take or give. last time I was at the clinic I lost 3 pounds...

[FierceMegan]

I would only tell them to lose weight if it was endangering to their health, if it looked like it was going to get there (endanger to their health), or if they were complaining about being overweight.

[SunSeeker]

Oh God no I would never directly tell her to get her ass on the treadmill but I would highly encourage she come out and exercise with me or suggest we start eating at healthier places. If she stopped caring about her weight altogether though we'd definitely have to talk.

[Niraandaa]

well, that's good to know :)

[kheserthorpe]

Its better to tell them then just lose sexual interest in them.

I've encouraged my wife to start working out, not because I was unhappy with her body but because SHE was, and that was impacting our relationship.

[sikoo31]

i always tell girls I get involved with that if they get fat I won't have sex with them anymore.

there's no excuses for being fat, if you want to be thin but aren't willing to work for it, then you're not the type of girl I want.

[Habakkuk]

yes, health and appearance. But I wouldn't give them the cold shoulder, I would exercise and eat right with them, although I am in no danger of ever being overweight

[TruthJones]

yes but only if they got overly sloppy and I didn't like it and I would hope that someone would do the same for me...wouldn't want my boyfriend to leave me over it just simply tell me that I'm getting fat and that would do the trick

[Anonymous]

Yes. If she started gaining (or losing) a significant amount of weight from what I met her at, then I'd say something to her. I haven't done so yet, my only girlfriend so far was always gorgeous to me.

[Jazz_92]

so far I have only told my parrents :P tho they are not that bad . I don't know if I would ask my future girl friend (LOL) to do that but I am pretty sure she wouldn't need that :D

[xzinax2]

if they were obese,yes,but I usually like thicker guys,so I probably wouldn't even need to,a bit of junk in the trunk is good

[missjustina]

No never straight up but I've wanted to. I just can't be that mean =/

[Anonymous]

I would and I did. I want my SO to live a healthy long happy life. I also got him to quit smoking :)