Curvy women are hot!
That is all...
Well please forgive me for this answer, but you hit a spot
short answer: social construction and the neccessities of a society thus being implimented through norms and practices of the media taking hold of said societies culture.
Lon answer: it is all the belief of the society and how beauty is pressented; whatever the image of health and healthy living is, the slight problem with this idea is that depending on the society the opinion of what beauty really is will differ quite drastically both in how it is reppressented and how such beauty is treated. First though why is skinny beautiful in our society is because their is less need for weight therefore being heavy will be portrayed as a taboo. The opinion of what beauty is also is linked into historical backgrounds; larger women were preffered in the 500 through 1700s as the preffered and ideal form of beauty due to the need of population growth due to economic and sustainable (another example would be Germany prior to WWII as it was preffered to build up a society before starting a war), this however slowly shifted as the desire to improve a societies population and economic standing shifts (any matriarchal society specifically going through this phase will face this situation and the ideal form of beauty will also change). But then that which is mass culture (not to be mistaken for pop culture) and upper class opinions will overproport the ideas of the changing society usually pulling them to the extremesdue to the value that can be drawn from such a change making that which once was healthy not healthy anymore and that which is never healthy. So in short terms the reason why Western culture has this whole fixation for skinny=beauty is due to cultural needs being overpowered by media and what will be the most cost efficient selling point (as my former marketing teacher once said "the best type of marketing is that which allows the consumer to not think but rather let the marketing to think for them").
as for my personal belief: one of my on the whole matter to quote Mika "BIG GIRLS YOU ARE BEAUTIFULLLLLLLLLLLLLL"
Amen!
sorry about the snobbishness of this comment wasn't thinking when writting ^_^
Because skinny is harder than being curvy. It takes effort to keep the weight off, and not much effort to put some curves on.
By focusing on "skinny" as the hard-to-attain standard of beauty, it makes an industry out of those who can "help" you to be beautiful. That's big business. Whereas if curvy was beautiful, anyone near a McDonalds could be beautiful.
The same sort of thing could be found in primitive cultures where food was scarce. Curvy was rare, therefore curvy was beautiful.
Ultimately, it's a money thing. There's more money to be made by telling women it's hard to be beautiful and that they need help, and they have to pay money to get that help.
This makes perfect sense. Just like men with the big penos thing correct? They try and create insecurities and profit from them. Interesting.
Being slim isn't hard if you've the genes. There's people who enjoys sweets and doesn't exercise, but are still slim.
I think it has to do with the media definitely. Like most people generally assume that someone who is skinny is automatically the picture of health. But that is always not true. And right now we are being told that we must be in the best health, not that that is a bad thing, it's just that there is a lot of misconceptions and misinformation out there. Girls are tricked by the media into thinking they have to be a size 00 because that is what everyone else looks like. That is what the magazines, movies and TV want us to believe. But in fact most girls aren't that tiny. Most are in the middle somewhere. There are naturally skinny women, but that is not the average. I think that if someone is skinny naturally that is good, but if not, they shouldn't starve themselves to be that way. It will only end up hurting them. Instead of people taking part in healthy habits, people are doing destructive things to get the 'healthy look'. So I think that is why girls are so afraid to be fat.
The clothing industry is also to blame, women's sizes are so inconsistent. Like I am only 5'6", and I find it hard to find pants and tops that are long enough. Plus some shirts are so small, and others are too big. It makes it hard for anyone to gauge what true size they are. So some girls may very well wear a large t-shirt, but she may be really skinny. It's just how the clothing manufacturers make the clothes.
It's good to know that there are guys out there who love curvy women! So many guys on here have no idea what fat actually is. I mean they judge it based on weight, but 110 on one girl might be the same as 145 on another. It just depends on the body type, age, height and genetics. I happen to be in the high weight range. But I carry the weight well, I mostly have it in the boobs, butt and thigh areas. So really it's hard for people to judge health and desireability just based on weight. But unfortunately some girls will focus too much on the weight and not their body composition for gauging how fit or unfit they are. And instead focus on getting the lowest weight.
:)
I wish society would stop acting like it absolutely has to be one type of beauty over another. Why can't both be beautiful? You seem to think you're doing something awesome here by praising curvy girls, but how do you think this post makes skinny girls feel? You're any better than society is by acting like curvy girls are better than skinny girls? Seems a bit hypocritical to me. What if the girl is just naturally skinny? Is that really her fault? Is it really her fault that she has a feature that just so happens to be in favor of the perspective of society? No.
I'm tired of society and men acting like there can only be one type of look that is beautiful. Beauty is diversity. That is my opinion. People should stop contributing to the idea of exclusivity by saying that one feature is better than another such as lighter skin being better, straighter hair being better, curvy or skinny being better, tall or short being better, tan or pale being better. Why can't people see that they all are beautiful in different ways!? Say there is a vibrant golden yellow and a radiant fiery orange. They are both appealing, gorgeous colors. Should you try to break them down layer by layer to figure out which one is better? No, just accept them for what they are and understand that their differences is what makes them beautiful. Same thing with women. Stop trying to break us down and decide which look is best. We are all beautiful in different ways.
I'm not talking about naturally skinny girls. I'm talking about the ones who are naturally curvier and strive to be skinny because that Is what society says is beautiful. Naturally skinny girls look good because that is there body type. This wasn't posted to create animosity. And I don't think any girl is naturally anorexic-looking. It is just one Gus opinion. I'm sorry if I offended you or came off as an a**hole.
Thanks for apologizing. But you seriously sat up here and said "I am appalled that people actually think these women's bodies are beautiful.They look emaciated and alien-looking. " and you didn't expect that might p*ss someone off?...really? I have friends with those body types naturally and I don't appreciate you coming up here bashing them! You are no better than society. This whole post is an example of reverse exclusivity. Not only did you bash skinny girls, but you said thick is okay ...
as long as she's not fat! Blaxican619, are you serious? Maybe you should think clearly next time so that you can propose the question more intelligently then you won't have to worry about creating animosity.
I just get so damn tired of men reinforcing the idea to women that one look is better with the ways they express their attractions. I may love men with six packs and muscles all over, but I'm not gonna go to a question and praise him knowing that a lot of men can't achieve that look. Or even if I didn't like muslces and thought they felt funny, it wouldn't be right for me to go to a question and praise chubby boys while I bash guys with muscles.
then saying "I have nothing against you chubby, round boys, it's just my opinion. Muscles are HOT!" How would that make you feel? can you see the hypocrisy of your actions? Fine, appreciate and value curvy girls, but don't sit up here and devalue other body types such as skinny girls and "fat" girls in the process! Because then you just look like what you claim to hate
It's just that I see so many girls that are so beautiful say they are fat and think they are unattractive. I just felt sort of sick of how skinny bodied women are glorified in the media and how it lowers the self esteem and self-worth of women with different body types.
You seem very angry. It is just my opinion. I am just one guy. Who cares?
I get that ,but attacking skinny women is not the solution. It's not just a body type thing. The media and society are constantly lowering the self worth and confidence of girls for many different reasons! Lighter skin is glorified, lighter eyes are glorified, longer hair is glorified, and so much more. You think skinny girls are immune to feeling bad about what they have and what they don't have just because their body type is one thing they don't have to worry about?
Why are men always objectifying us in the first place!? "No you don't have enough boobs. Your stomach isn't flat enough. Your eyes don't look _____ enough. Your eye lashes should be longer. Your hair should be longer and silkier. You should be thicker. You should be skinner. You should be more this and that" As if our purpose in this world is to please men whom most of aren't even worth impressing!
Guys need to stop forgeting the reason God put women on this Earth! It is not to just look good for you and please you with our f***ing looks! So "who's skinner? who's thicker? blah blah blah" shouldn't be such a big deal anyway!
I just thought I would share my opinion on the subject. I didn't mean to sound rude about it. I can definitely see where your coming from though. I just flipped the script. But it was just my opinion and I felt like curvier women needed to here that they are loved. plus I don't understand why all models are so skinny? Women are more diverse then that. It just so happens that I am not attracted to those model body types. I can see how it could make you feel angry though. I am sorry.
Thanks again for your apology :) I want you to know I'm not angry, I'm just fiery and fiesty :P I want my perspective to be put out there and understood by men and women everywhere. I do agree that they should display different body types with models, but the thing is I think it's easy for designers to begin their collections with less fabric and material. It's easier for them to make a few dresses of a small size that can fit a specific body type than it would be to use more fabric..
which costs more money to fit a larger body type and the dress may not even fit the larger body type the way the designer intended the dress to fit. That is more of a business thing. Designers don't want to spend a ton of money on fabric creating something that won't sell so logically it would seem easier to use less fabric to make a smaller dress thus need smaller models to fit the dress.
Ok that's good to know. :) and that's a logical explanation. Less fabric. And don't get the wrong message. I like skinny girls alot. Just nit those super super skinny ones. :p
lol OK really and truly you don't even have to like skinny girls, just don't bash them!
Yeah I gotcha. :p
"Guys need to stop forgeting the reason God put women on this Earth! It is not to just look good for you and please you with our f***ing looks!"
*I am pretty sure women's role on this planet is to make children. They have to make children by finding the best possible mate, by looking their best possible. So yeah, down to the core of things, it seems that women's role on this planet is to look good.
andre251, maybe that's YOUR idea of what a woman's true purpose on this Earth is, but my idea is so much bigger than that
I downgraded you because, you pick and choose what's OK to judge and what isn't. Quite frankly, I find that interesting. Ciao for now...
ky monster...alright? lol thank you for telling me why you downvoted me though
Anytime.
lol, so now you'll be stalking my answers? :P
idk why they do this to white girls. I think society does this partly to keep women down. most adult women are not naturally model thin, but if they are pressured to be that way they will feel insecure because they can't live up to those standards. they won't be confident and they'll have low self esteem and won't reach their own potential if they obsess over getting to a body type that's unnatural and unattainable for them. I used to be friends with a white girl that was obsessed about her weight. she wasn't overweight and actually had a cute shape but she would diet trying to be a size 2. nothing's wrong with being skinny if that's your natural body type but I don't get why people feel the need to strive to be that way if it's not for them. if you have to spend 3 hours a day working out then that is not your natural body type! just stop! skinny doesn't automatically mean healthy and it doesn't automatically mean beautiful. I have skinny friends who hate their size and wish they were thicker.
Opinion
10Opinion
Its rather simple. The Media. Woman are very emotional. their actions are driven towards this. Everything from the media tells woman they need to be thin, Actors and models waste 1000s on their bodies and it gives a false standard. Men Desire most actors because of their beauty so its tough compition. Its even worse for woman with bad familes and broken homes. They never get the attion they need growing up to teach them its OK to be them. When girls learn everything from Sitcom TV shows, movies and magazines it really beats up any self asteem.
Media teaches woman to be thin, to wear tons of makeup and to have perfect skin ( when 90% of magazine photos are photoshoped, I do graphic design so I know from an inside view how that works ). It teaches Woman that she needs to go out, clubing, men are all stupid and that we don't care so they shouldn't either because we are replacable. And thanks to all this we have todays world. People don't know how to love, how to make relationships work. why do you think the marriges end so much in the USA?
But I agree with you, I don't think beauty is being skinny. every woman has their own frame. I like woman who are within 110- 130/40 maybe 50 depending on how tall they are. She dosnt have to have huge fake t*ts or makeup on. I love a pretty set of eyes, darker hair long or short and a pretty smile. Because when your older her body will change but you will always rem that smile.
really? women.. that's why there are 10,000 Q on here from guys about their d*** their balls, their fat asses,their height, their hair , their glasses, their smelly feet. you're not just a bit prejudiced their.
its a trend. guys have tantrums and crisis, yet continue to talk about women having low self esteem, as if that's some noble cause. it has nothing to do with gender. how susteptable you are to bullsh*t is a Q of character and conscience-NOTgenitals.
totally agree - if we look back in history - being curvy was considered beautiful and desired. it was a sign of wealth. People wanted to be fair , redhead and curvy - now people want to be fake tan, blond and skinny. its funny and scary to watch people try to change how they look just because we all want to be something we are not. it goes through your head - would my eyes look bigger if I lost more weight. etc - right now I'm trying to lose 2 stone - why? because I want skinny legs not skinny skinny - I want to be a uk size 8 - why? well I want to have hourglass figure right now I'm spilling a bit over at the stomach. I'm eating healthy and I'm jogging - I'm not in a rush to lose it I just want a healthier lifestyle .im a natural redhead , I could easily want to be like megan fox - who doesn't she s hot! but why be something you can't - its not pretty to be fake.although we don't admit it half enough we always want to be something we are not- white people want to have natural dark skin so they wear fake tan , while the media use european models in india so , indian people (some not all)use bleaching creams to be white. life is crazy - if you are smart you ll just accept yourself as you are - no plastic surgery and no fake tan. be the person you are meant to be. sadly that doesn't always happen :(
It's a marketing scheme that has brainwashed all women in some way or form. Have you ever met a girl who has low self esteem? Chances are you have cause the majority of them are so fixated on their body image, they make themselves sick over it. Insecurity issues among ladies is high, too. I can't begin to tell you how many girls I've met who are extremely self conscious.
They are slaves to the retail industry. Everywhere they look they see magazines, TV shows and movies portraying girls in such a way that helps sell merchandise.
Playing upon a human's emotions and being able to manipulate them to purchase products was introduced in the early 1920's. You can thank Joseph Goebel's Nazi propaganda war machine for some of it. The retail industry knows if they catch prospective customers during their youth stages, they can train them to become future customers. Think about it...youth can be manipulated because their brains are like a sponge. Marketers know this and thus do what ever they can to display their products in a youthful manner.
A combination of peer pressure and psychology. Being thin is highly prized in societies where food is abundant, and where being thin is difficult maintain. In societies where food is scarce, being fat is considered a symbol of power, wealth, and fertility.
I think it depends on the girl. There are some girls who are naturally thin and the wouldn't look as good with extra weight. Then there are girls who look very good with a little extra woman. I personally like having a little more woman to fondle. If I can pick her up, I'm happy.
food is not abundant. you know how many people have to choose between rent and food and medicine. being thin is healthier, less strain on your heart, less fat making you stupid, easier on your joints, easier on your organs, and it feels good to move. most people sit on their ass. so they love saying skinny people are skinny because thy don't know how to love themselves. being activeIS loving yourself and life too.
i know I'm not fat.. but I think its so dumb when girls call themselves fat, because girls that say that usually just want the attention of someone else telling them that they are not fat.. this girl would do it so much, I came to a point where I waned her to stop saying it.. because its a pet peeve of mine.. she said.. "Does this shirt make me look fat".. I said " No, its the fat that makes you look fat" so she finally shut up/ lol but I think the girl son Americas Next top Model are not even that pretty.. the look like a bunch of E.T.s running around. gross.
They are really disgustingly skinny. :p
This stinks, because I struggle with attaining a skinnier figure all of the time, although I don't want to be exactly stick thin, especially since I'm like 5'9", but yeah it bugs the hell out of me constantly...However, ironically, I always encourage health and positive self-esteem in others, regardless of their outward appearance... No sense in being a healthy weight and having a beautiful figure, If you don't love yourself then you're just existing instead of living. I wish I could swallow a dose of my own medicine though, and I'm trying, but I often feel gross.
Good luck and give your sisters my blessing, and keep promoting positive self-esteem to them. They need it more than you could ever imagine.
Jamaica Outttttttttttt
Will do! :D
I am curvy myself! I think more men should try and date curvier women and that are healthy. I swear I look at some women and I just don't want to be that thin at all. I don't know why so many guys like guys that thin. It is a shame that the media and society influence people to think that being that small is ideal if it is not the natural way you are built. I think because of technology and media and their message on being skinny is why there are so many douchebags in the world that would never want to date a curvier female becuase from all of the media hype.
I love curves :D
I don't really care if she's skinny. I just prefer curvy women is all. :)
Fat is when they start getting muffin top. Curvy is a an hourglass shape: thick hips and thighs. Large breasts. Not a lot of excess belly fat.
Lol. I ask myself the same thing
i agree with you I think society makes girl think they need to be skinny ...and I think their are a lot of guys out there that influence that to but I also think girls have a big play in it because they will like dis on other girls that are thick and crap but I don't know I think people should just except their body for what it is
^^agreed
yea I don't get y people let others opinions get to them I mean unless its like someone you like maby I could understand ...being in cosmetology I deal with a lot of people who don't except their bodies
It is this way because that's how marketing and media shows it.
For example I work for a large chain gym. I work as a salesman at this gym. What do salesmen do in order to get people to purchase a gym membership? They feed off of other peoples insecurities about how they look. If you take a fairly healthyy curvy girl that is super concious about how she looks and tell her that she needs to lose weight and feed on her insecurities, chances are she will purchase the membership.
(I do not do this. This is what a lot of my colleagues do. It works in making numbers and selling memberships, but I refuse to put aside my morals for making monthly numbers.)
Just personal experience as to why females feel the need to weight a hundred pounds. It's everywhere in our society.
Haha, skinny is beautiful, curves are beautiful. Extremes of both, well lets be honest obesity isn't cute, anorexia not too attractive as well... Healthy is beautiful kiddos!
I agree
ohhhh Ky Monster, now I recognize you. I had no clue who you were lol until a second ago! There's a difference between judging someone for something they can't help and judging someone for something they choose to do
And either way, it's not right. Unless someone's choices are directly hurting you, I don't believe we should judge.
How about you f*** off? I think that's a better idea. I'm
oops, I didn't finish.. I'm really over your comments about MY sexuality which doesn't affect you in the slightest. You're fine to believe what you want obviously, I just know that I'm not a skank, and any other woman or man who has sex with more than 3 people in their lifetime aren't either.
i like thin, and to be honest, it's almost the same for guys, we have to get big and dominant. if a girl can't manage to stay healthy, and just eats and watches TV that's her fault.
when I see a chubby girl I see someone who just wants to cruise life the easy way, I assume it's the same for other aspects of her life.
it's like the only thing they have to do to attract the opposite gender, if that's too much, then try and earn money, be educated and strong minded... I don't see that happening anytime soon.
I never said anything about chubby. There are girls who are healthy and have curves
then yes I agree
I think that every body type should be embraces and that women and men should stop putting each other down because their body types. If you like curvier women that's fine, people say I'm thick but personally I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder. This one guy told me I had a fat ass and another guy told me I didn't. Personally I think I am just fit and well endowed as a femalke, but I don't think that everyone should look like me. I even been asked if I had breast implants because people couldn't beleive that I have a flat stomach with big DD breast.
answer mine? link
I want to know why people assume just because a girl is skinny she's unhealthy? Or why if a girl is skinny and looks healthy she's seen as less desirable and compared to a 12 year old. How is that fair to people, like me, who have fast metabolisms, eat like normal people, and work out to stay healthy and in shape? It's not my fault that other people (women and men) let themselves go. And I'm saying let themselves go because that's true, kim kardashian is curvy and I've heard plenty of girls call themselves curvy when they're really just overweight, having big boobs and an @ss doesn't necessarily make you curvy because in most cases that's not true. But that's just my opinion.
Kim kardashian body type is good. Fat girls call themselves curvy to feel better.
I've seen women in great shape with curves. Being skinny does not equal being healthy. Women are supposed to have hips and curves
And being skinny doesn't mean you're unhealthy either. I'm never going to have big boobs or an ass, does that make me unhealthy or any less of a woman? Most skinny girls out there aren't aneorxic, most self proclaimed curvy girls are overweight though but skinny girls always get crap because most people are just big because most people would rather indulge in some chips and sit on the couch all day than go to the gym
I never said skinny was unhealthy. Some people have that natural body type. Just like some people are built thicker. It is all relative to the person. And no it doesn't make you any less of a woman, it makes you have less of a womanly figure. That was what I was asking. It seems now a days the ideal is skinny. I have nothing against skinny. It just seems wrong that girls that are in great physical shape and naturally have more curvy (NOT FAT OR OVERWEIGHT) bodies are trying to be skinny.
I agree! I'm in between a skinny girl and a curvy girl. I have the upper body of a skinny girl with naturally small arms, my build, a tiny waist, flat stomach, and average breasts and the lower body of a thicker girl with thick thighs and a big butt so I can see it from both sides. I have a friend who is just naturally extremely skinny! She's 19, but she's just straight up and down and people often tell her she looks gross like she has an eating disorder, but she eats like a sumo wrestler!
It is not her fault that she is not a thicker girl. Why are people taking it out on the skinny girls? We're not the ones who promote the images that the media feeds to society and we can't help the way our bodies are just like thicker girls can't help the way their bodies are! This question is an example of reverse exclusivity!
No she's not
its because there aren't enough guys like you to tell us that we are beautiful when the rest of the world is telling us how worthless and ugly we are.
:( dang
People don't say that curvy girls are worthless! Look at Kim Kardashian, her entire fame is based off of being a curvy girl! Do you honestly believe anyone would be paying so much attention to her if she was just straight up and down? No, they'd think she was a cute girl with a sex tape. But because she's curvy, she gets a lot of attention. Stop pitying yourself. Curvy girls do not have it the worse.
@freetobe007 I never said that curvy girls had it worse and I certainly don't pity myself I'm offended that you would suggest that I do nor did I say that curvy girls were worthless I said TOLD they are worthless; however, the fact remains that one curvy famous person does not make a difference in relation to this question curvy women will ALWAYS be less popular and less beautiful than skinny women because not enough people believe otherwise and those that do don't often do something about it.
Society has corrupted everyone into thinking skinny is the way to go; guys complain about their weight as well.
I think the idea is changing though - as being healthy is becoming more emphasized than being a size 0.
Plus, I think curvy girls (not fat,) but women with meat in the right places are viewed as being more sexy than the anorexic figures that used to dominate. Not to say really petite women aren't desired - it just isn't as apparent as it used to be I believe.
Yea, I've noticed that too - but I think skinny guys don't have as much difficulty as the bigger guys do.
Do you work out? Packing on some muscle can help -
That's good ^^
Yea in a sense @ value stuff. But guys have more value than just their penises, money, and lol seductive vocabulary. At least, this is what the non - shallow women think.
Everyone appreciates people that make a little effort in taking care of themselves. If you can't take care of yourself, how can you take care of others?
Thin girls are attractive because they take care of themselves. I like skinny, petite girls but in my honest opinion, stronger and aggressive women are more my type. I guess you can say there are girls to satisfy any type. It's silly to blame society on people's problems.
Very true; wow, your the first guy to mention aggressive women - I hear we can be intimidating to men. Good to know there are guys out there who aren't put off by a little strength.
Some thin girls don't - some smoke, eat junk food all day etc, their just biologically smaller. Likewise, their are chubby girls who eat healthy and remain chubby.
Perhaps the idea was to emphasize health (society,) and people took it as you have to be a size -2 in order to be sexy.
Thus it created this disillusioned idea within society, that you have to be a -2 to be seen as attractive. Society is just a collective of everyone's ideals, with the more profound community ideas making the most impact. So yea, we've basically created this skinny standard for ourselves. So I guess society can be blamed lol
By the way, there's a difference between intimidating girls and aggressive ones, lol.
Intimidating means girls that would put you down with just a look, without even going to her to say hi.
Aggressive means she isn't afraid of her sexuality and can put up a little challenge for control. Not dominating ones.
It's not so much that it's aesthetically pleasing to society - it's that women have a natural attraction to muscle on a man, just how guys like boobs and tushies. It's just nature. Everyone has their own preferences for how much or how little of something they like, as not all guys like huge chest, and women huge muscles. It's like, if I was really fat and I asked you what I could do to be sexier - I bet you'd tell me to lose weight,
because I'd slim down and produce the curvature in my waist that naturally appeal to men. The media feeds off of these natural appeals in humans, and pumps them up to create the perfect idealized humans - this is when you start to get issues, as people try to measure up to these impossibly perfect standards.
So, I'm not really enforcing society's standards on you - I'm just trying to offer and idea that may help you be more attractive to women, from my perspective as a woman. And yes, that is also the message (taking care of yourself and ability to care for others,) that also comes along with that. Which is something else that is appealing.
@ intimidating thing -
I was speaking from a non -sexual aspect, but that does apply lol ^^
Yea, but it's a standard people created that we can never live up to. So it's kind of odd it exist lol Without that perfectly idealized standard, so many people wouldn't be feeling so damn sh*tty.
I know confidence is something one builds on their own, but when it's reinforced that your still not good enough, or big enough, or whatever enough, it can do some damage.
Nice convo... Lol you guys make several good points
That's a good point; it does make one work to achieve - that's a good positive to it.
And yes, I totally agree on that last point ^^
Skinny doesn't automatically equate to anorexic looking. Thick girls should stop trying to put skinny girls down to make themselves feel better about what they have and what they don't have.
Lol since when did I say skinny equated to anorexia? You have to admit, a lot of fashion models were pretty much anorexic before the issue was pointed out, and models are typically what represents what's attractive in society.
There's nothing wrong with skinny - hell I'm skinny lol, I just don't think it's being as drilled into people as much as before - it's more about being healthy these days.
But yea your right, people shouldn't put others down due to their own insecurities...
Naturally thin is okay but being skinny like a model is f***ing disgusting. I don't know why people think that bones protruding is attractive; it's not. I think being a bit overweight is more attractive than that.There's a difference between being healthy and being too skinny.
Skinny like a model = unhealthy and unnatural.
I prefer skinny girls, but not because society tells me to. I just find them more attractive.
That's fine. I can respect that
Because it is. I'll take a skinny girl over a fat one ANY DAY. Plus, everyone has their own perception of beauty.
I never said anything about fat girls. I said curvy. Like Kim kardashians body type
Her body type not her show. Google her
It's about products and services. They fashion this idealistic sense of ourselves. But how do we get there? Products and services.
its nnot uncommon for black guys to find thicky thick girls more attractive. I think most white guys are different though
I'm half black. :p lol
and it definitely shows :P
<3thickness<3 lol
:P
Don't start with me woman. :P
riiight
:p
I'm white, thick girls are where it's at. Not like fat, but nice thick legs. Not gonna lie, it's extremely attractive. Girls who are skinny who are attractive would be like Alyssa Milano. A girl that is thick and attractive would be like J LO or as QA puts. kardashian. You can be skinny, and attractive, but too may girls think they need to be size 0 or something. Alyssa's size is the smallest I would go. Thicker the better for me, and like I said, I'm white
^^ this guy knows what I'm sayin
I'm kind of thick on bottom and white guys are always hitting on me so no it's just just a black guy thing
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions