I'm a bit of a hard case on this issue, but I go into a relationship letting the other person know that I am very much into fitness and health. If they chose not to live this lifestyle I'll leave.
Since you went into this relationship with an unhealthy person, there's not much you can really say. Do what others have suggested, workout him etc. Guys need things bluntly stated too, so don’t hint, just say it.
What you should think about is that you are with a man that does not enjoy being in his situation and does NOTHING to fix it. Hopefully this character flaw doesn't carry forward when he loses his job... Something to think about.
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Don't say it of course but do a sport together or gym membership. Go running, walking, swimming, and eat better. Around 3500 is one pound of fat. If you find out how many calories he eats and stays the same weight. Keep eating the same amount of calories. If you take away 500 calories I day from that diet then he would lose one pound a week. 7 days * 500 calories = 3500 calories a week which is a pound a fat. Or just exercise enough to lose 500 or more calories a day.
Work out together! :D Maybe just tell him that if he's unhappy with his weight, then he should work to change it. It will make him feel better about himself and it's a good way to get productive! Just be really sweet and encouraging about it. Don't say it in a mean or harsh way and smile so that he doesn't feel like you don't think he's good enough and it just comes off as you wanting to help him out. Make sure you emphasize that it's about HIM, not you. :)
tell him to come with you to the gym because you want him to be healthy and fit like you and so you can spend more time together :)
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Tell him you're losing attraction for him, don't desire having sex with the fatness, and would like it if he lost the fat.
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