Ok, honestly? I have a few points:
a) I tend to go for tall, skinny, nerdy guys -- why? Because they make me feel less award about my height, are not physically intimidating (I got molested once so a guy with huge muscles scares the sh*t out of me), and we can connect about science, philosophy, current events or just talk about something more in depth than -- "How was your day, want to party?"
b) For me I have more of a personality type than a looks type, quirky science nerds -- in fact they've all been engineers, physicists or environmental scientists. (My field is in the last category if you must know)
c) As far as looks go I've dated guys with backney, who wore dad jeans and miscolored tall socks with sandals, was I a fan? Not particularly but I liked the guy MORE. The only deal breaker for me is if the guy is more than an inch or two shorter than me because I was 5'6" by the time I was ten and just got mercilessly teased for being the jolly green giant growing up. My aunt married a guy that was 5 years younger and 5 inches shorter, so I guess I should keep an open mind.
d) Why am I telling you all this? Because people have questioned me every step of the way asking me why I'm going out with so and so, for HALF the guys I've dated, because they think I could do better. Could I really? I'm happy and there's a lot more going on between his two goofy ears than 90% of the guys I know -- and guess what he cares about me as a person, not as some sex object.
e) Bottom line? I would be mad at you if you told me we couldn't date because I'm not in your perceived league because my league has to do minimally with looks, and everything with personality.
Why don't you try selecting based on personality leagues, hmm?
Just my two cents.
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Can someone please help me by specifying some criteria to look out for so that I can decide which girls to go for? go to hot or not
Not sure why you think you can't expect a gorgeous woman to like you.
You're a guy leagues don't matter much since women are less visual & more forgiving than men about looks.
Plus as a guy factors other than looks make you attractive- wealth, status, personality.
I wouldn't take anything pixie says seriously.
She says men are more visual than women and are more forgiving about looks.
When really, she will only date a guy who she sees as a 8 because she claims she's an 8 (which I highly doubt).
And he must be at least 5'10. Because she is average height, so therefore a guy must be average height.
Not to mention she also will only be with a man whos d*** is 8 inches.
With no acne whatsoever.
Not even one.
Her standards on physical appearance are extremely high.
Now that is all fine and dandy, she can be attractive to whomever she wants.
Oh, and might I add.
All of those things are a must have for her.
So I would take what she says about other women very lightly.
Screw "leagues". Go after what you want and if it doesn't work out, oh well, keep trying.
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