How do I get over him?

[Anonymous]

How do I get over this guy? He is a close friend, we've had sex every now and then for over a year... we had mixed emotions before, both said we liked each other then he changed his mind :S its all a bit of a mess, but for some reason I keep him close to me... he talks to me all the time about these 2 girls he talks to, both have treated him like crap :/ and I'm like whhhhhy can't you c me?! He goes for these girls who are skinny, short, blond hair, blues eyes... and I'm curvy, tall, browny blond hair and brown eyes and he just keeps saying I'm not his type, yet he'll sleep with me :S

[toulouse]

you should dump him, w/e situation your in, you will feel better later if you know you left him. whether you feel like getting over him or not. FORCE yourself. he does not want you, so leave. saying how do I get over him, means you are not interested in getting over him. you are hoping someone will tell you how to get him.

if you WANT to get over him and you are capable of it- if you are not capable, then no point in asking- then use your WILL & DO IT. DONT 'ASK'. DO.

[Anonymous]

Don't just get over him, get away from him. What a total piece of garbage.

[Asker]

he goes back to uni soon... that's about a 4hr drive away so that's good, but I just feel myself drawn to him :/ sounds silly I know x

[Princessmebby]

Honey, get a hobby. Go out, find a new man who knows how special you are. This guy doesn't deserve you. Watch movies, read a good book, hang out with friends. Just don't fall into his ways anymore. He sounds superficial and if he can't see that he has a wonderful girl right in front of him then he is blind.

[Asker]

yeah, he is a blind!