Does My Kindness Make Me Unattractive to Guys?

[Sn105]

So I'm 16 and really short for my age (4'11.)

I still have a good amount of confidence, I'm fun to be around, and I'm friendly to almost everyone. If a guy that I'm not really attracted to hits on me, then I will just politely make it clear that I'm not into being in a relationship with that person.

But it doesn't matter how confident/nice I am, or how big of a smile I have on my face, guys that I'm attracted to don't like me.

They don't hate me, but they just aren't interested. It's like I'm a dude repellent. They seem to flock to the nasty barbie doll girls, or the girls that dress like boys. Basically I'm invisible to every guy but the creeps or the hygienically challenged.

Is my kindness unattractive to guys? I refuse to change myself for a guy, but I'm just wondering if this is how pathetic society is.

[ROTFLMFAO]

are you attractive? are you skinny? attractive guys are attracted to attractive 'bad' AND good girls. sure, your kindness is unattractive to some guys, but that doesn't mean every guy goes for 'bad girls'. I like submissive, feminine good girls, but they shouldn't be boring (good girls tend to be less interesting/aren't as fascinating as 'bad girls'). you are attracted to guys who are attracted to slutty barbie doll girls (which means you are attracted to guys with bad taste in girls). the guys who aren't attracted to you are attracted to 'great girls' (I suppose you're convinced you're great) which means you aren't attracted to guys with good taste in girls. how come guys with good taste in girls are creeps? why are they creeps? you're not attracted to guys who are attracted to you, but you're attracted to guys who aren't attracted to you. you want what you can't have. don't blame the guys you are attracted to. maybe they think you are a creep/nerd?! who knows?! honestly, it seems to me you are too picky...

[Sn105]

yeah I'm skinny and yes I consider myself attractive.

I don't know what the other girls have that I don't have.

I'm not attracted to the guy that asks if he can share my blanket with me, and we just met. Or asks for hugs constantly, to me that is a little on the creepy side. I don't fall for those guys,

[ROTFLMFAO]

a guy who asks for hugs insn't creepy. this kind of guy is desperate. he'd be creepy if he grabbed your ass on a regular basis. you obviously don't what the meaning of the word 'creep'.

[ROTFLMFAO]

don't know the meaning of the word creep*

[Sn105]

still the "blanket sharing" is still a little bold to say when you just met someone a few minutes ago.

One time a fat kid lifted up his shirt and told me the "life story" of his fat. These are definitely not my type of guys.

[ROTFLMFAO]

LOL!

[Sn105]

believe me, I have plenty of these stories. The same kid also told me everyday about his numerous fungal problems. No joke. I went through 4-6 months of this.

[Sn105]

He followed me around for 4-6 months, and has been stalking me for a year now.

This kid made almost everyone think that we were a couple.

I tried to get as far away from him as possible.

[WoIIie]

Guys can lose interest because of many thing, and kindness isn't one of them. That might be one of the best things going for you, just work on other things!

[WoIIie]

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[Rubzie]

Lol I'm in stiches!

[WoIIie]

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[Cuddle_Muffin]

DAMN. ALL THOSE THINGS, NOT ENOUGH STUFF.