I have a pretty thin frame, meaning I look 13 when I'm like in college, I've tried gaining weight, meaning I used to wolf down fast food & things with high carbs to try and gain weight and nothing :( But people always think it's the chubby people who suffer with their image but I'm skinny and I feel that guys aren't attracted to that, cause I always hear that guys like girls with meat on their bones and such :( so do guys mind if a girl is naturally thin.? ~~
whaaaaatt.? How did my question change from "Do guys like slender girls to this.?" o___o
Thank You for all your answers.! (both gals & guys) ^^ They really help open up a girl's eyes :D now I know if one guy won't accept me then another will and it won't matter that I'm a twig hahaha.! Thank you for all your answers & NEW answers are always welcome :D
I may be interested in you by your looks but your personality would make me attracted to you. If you want to get noticed ask questions about what the guy is doing and that you want to learn how to do xzy. After you get to know him if you are nurturing and caring toward a guy that is really sexy. Going up to him and just hugging him. Asking him if you can get him something to eat. Just doing simple things for him that shows you like him. He should also want to do things for you! I feel like so many girls are not worth dating because they lack compassion and act like selfish bitches and then they wonder why their relationships are always screwed up. You don't have to look a certain way to get great guys because showing you care and willing to learn new things will make him happy and actually build relationships. A lot of girls like to have test and play games with guys that just create more tension and confusion in relationships. If you are more strait to the point and open about what you intend to do the person you are trying to persew won't feel like they need to decode what you mean and will be more comfortable around you.
A pretty face, average to hot body and a personality deeper then a bag of chips.
real hobbies other than TV or books. Understands how the world works and has common sense. Honest ,real and faithful with morals. Someone I can look at equally without having to be expected to buy everything and always spend money. Someone who likes movies/music with depth and real plot/character development and not just chick flick,sitcom BS.
To answer your last question, not at all. And by that I should specify that as long as you don't look like one of the olsen twins at their minimum thickness, you're fine. Judging by your arm in the pic, I'd say you don't have anything to worry about. It seems within reasonable range to me..
Absolutely they do. I feel I'm always being dumped for the thin ones!
I'm a bigger girl myself, I do try and eat well and I exercise a lot. I'm now more toned but not that much smaller (getting there very slowly)
But, looking at the types of women all my friends are with they are all TINY. Like, size 4 tiny. Little boobs, little waists, little everything!
All men like different women. I mean, I don't like well built muscled guys, I much prefer tall, slim, and natural, but apparently women generally like a ripped man? My ex is about 5 foot 10 and weighed roughly 50kg. Small does not mean unattractive.
If you're frame is small anyway, even if you did put on weight it might look odd. If you look in proportion and normal that is what men like. Symmetry. Don't beat yourself up about it - if guys aren't asking you out it's more because they're scared you're too good for them ;-)
I totally relate to your experience. You should be grateful because with your frame, you are able to attract a greater variety of guys. Also, don't let anyone make you feel bad about your figure. If that is you in the pic, you are really pretty.