Would you girls date a a guy who was , good looking, tall , great personality but...?

[Temporary19]

had the body of an anorexic even tho he's not anorexic just naturally thin

and is in the middle of trying to gain the weight .

[Catie101]

when I first started dating my boyfriend he was pretty thin. I wasn't large by any means but he was much thinner. he's larger than I am now but I still liked him just as much back then. but if it is like ribs completely sticking out I just can't be attracted to that because in my mind it just doesn't look healthy and I'm attracted to healthy guys.

[Temporary19]

agreed. exactly . it's completely unattractive. but not as bad as ribs

[Catie101]

if their ribs aren't sticking out than I would say yes I would

[Temporary19]

but I must admit its close to that.

[Temporary19]

so yeah , its super gross , I know.

[swedish]

Im a curvy girl, so it wouldn't feel "right" to be with a stick skinny guy. I'd prefer my guy to be heavier than me. But, if that's the only down side he has then it's not a problem. Girls dig all sorts of guys!

[Temporary19]

i understand. XD

[notluckywithlove]

Lolz of course I love lanky guys they're adorable ^^ there's nothing wrong with it at all. Good luck gaining weight though ha ha I know I have a guy friend who's exactly like that and no matter what he eats that way he remains ha ha cute xD

[Temporary19]

guess some1 with the 'lanky' gene will die a virgin then. great. what's the point of living then.

[notluckywithlove]

Woah where did that come from O.o lanky guys are actually highly attractive to many people theirs nothing wrong with them..and it's mostly because of your and his age that you can't gain weight right now because your matabolism is really fast as it slows down it will be easier it's really not that big of a deal though I'm sorry if it came off that way =/

[Temporary19]

no , I'm just saying , if some1 didn't go near women bcoz of having the body I described then he'll never have a girlfriend ever, bcoz gaining weight might never happen unno. Basically if a guy is in this siuation he is f***ed for life. Scary .

[notluckywithlove]

Not nessicarily he just has to learn to deal with the self esteem issues that he appears to be facing and stop looking so hard at the things that he thinks are bad then he'd see they're plenty of people who want him for the person that he already is. The best advice I could give to someone in that particular person with that particular mindset is..take the shades off your eyes and see the worlds real colors

[Temporary19]

yea but the possibility of ever having a sexual relationship with a girl is not a possibility because no women would ever settle for a guy who was skin and bones and it's the sad truth.

There's a difference between been skinny ,thin,slim and very skinny . don't you agree?

[notluckywithlove]

Not true at all really and I'd say the thought stems back into the "low self esteem" I was speaking of before..if said person feels that way of course..exspecially if said person feels as if he has to be "settled before" as you said he would have a great personality, and he's good looking/tall and from one of your responses to another answer before not entirely weak then what's the problem..not all girls go for the muscle and wash board abs combo if ya know what I mean

[Temporary19]

bones is absolutely disgusting . I wudnt expect a girl to be attracted to that.that's where the problem is. therefore , gym and eating healthy foods are the only ways forward for him tho he might never gain so he is stuck in a limbo situation. terrible isn't it.

[notluckywithlove]

One persons opinion doesn't make the packs many people find guys on the thinnish side more attractive and there's nothing wrong with that..and he'll gain sooner or later if he's patient and keeps moving forward men's metabolisms as I said before are faster during the younger periods of life...he's not stuck anywhere unless that's where he puts himself..and it seems that's where you have this poor guy firmly placed when he doesn't have to be

[Temporary19]

there's no hope when your so skinny . A girl could see you and like you but then when you take your clothes it cud be like , omg I'm not having sex with you , sorry bro , kinda thing. That's would be extremely embarressing unno. So you can understand why he'd suffer in silence instead of going for the jugglar?

[notluckywithlove]

I can understand why he would feel he has to but again you're giving said person fears based off of a mixture of a fear of rejection (showing that he's either self concious or has been rejected often in the past) and again said person being self concious. It seems he doesn't think people can accept him for who he is and that girls will shrug him off and not have a kind of commitment or sex with him because of his weight..and that's not always true..if he never gives it a chance how will he know?

[Temporary19]

If he wudnt date a girl who is skin and bones then why would he let a girl date him if he was such skinny .thats were he's coming from. is that not right way at all?

[notluckywithlove]

That's the thing though everyone has their own preference..just because said person doesn't like a certain type doesn't mean that the people around him can't and won't...it's like hmm OK lets say there is a nerd who doesn't like other nerds..does that mean he should say oh no one should like me because I have a certain preference..no it's just the way of the world..there's nothing wrong with that at all..

[Temporary19]

so really it all comes down to self esteem your saying?

But you can understand that a really skinny guy cannot be attractive . Every1 need to have some meat on there bones. No matter how friendly,kind or funny they are , if the body image is not up to scratch then a relationship would never last becoz why settle for a guy liked I described as super skinny when you cud easily get a better built guy in no time.

[notluckywithlove]

In the end the will to not be open to a relationship because of how you look is coming down to self esteem yes..and no I don't believe that's true at all..and if a relationship has to last based off of appearance then that's a relationship that should of never begun..a relationship to me is being with someone who accepts your faults and try's to understand you as you do the same in return..it's not about builds and muscle that's just self centered bull

[Temporary19]

yes but the majority of girls would be off by a skinny body and go with a less good looking guy just bcoz he's better built. Isn't that true in your view? Bcoz it is in every1 elses eyes unfortuantely

[notluckywithlove]

No I don't care about muscle and theirs many girls who don't either not everyone in the world wants one certain body style that's as far from the truth as you could possibly get..that's your personal opinion though so I can't tell you to change it just that again it's not completly correct...I'd rather have personality..and a million other little things like him remembering to put the seat cover down xD..before I worried about his muslce size

[Temporary19]

i can send you a pic of my figure so you can tell me yourself if I'm as bad as I think. do I need to add you for that to send you a pic? just to see for yourself . nothing profaine

[notluckywithlove]

Sure go ahead and umz I'm not quite sure you could add me and then link it

[pr3ttybr0wn]

No, I wouldn't be attracted to him. I like a guy with a little more meat on his bones. I'd rather have a guy that was fat than overly skinny to the point he looks anorexic

[Anonymous]

well as long as he isn't too thin. I always like the boy to be just a little stronger than I am.

[Temporary19]

He might be stronger , but he cud look like a weak f***er even tho he's not weak at all. do you get what I'm saying? lol

[Senses]

yupp...

[Temporary19]

i know your trying to be nice by saying 'yupp...' . I admire your compassion.