Grirls Should I send a Valentine?

[Anonymous]

a girl that I thougt liked me has recently out of the blue told me she's not interested. but I really like her should I still send her a valentine?

The history:-

a year ago I asked her out and to my delight she said yes but unfortunatley we never got a chance to go on a date as I had to leave for business purposes. However we did keep in touch by email and texts etc.

I returned before xmas to which she appeared happy that I'd returned so I asked her out again she responded postively but due to her doing 4 jobs at the time she was unable to fit anything into her schedule. so I waited a couple of weeks and asked again but she was still unable to find anytime. I have no reason to doubt this as I know the places she works at. Then last week she said she was no longer interested. She's 18 and I'm nearly 10 years older.

[No-Amor]

A valentine is a sweet gesture, but it is what the valentine says that matters. Perhaps if she has said she has no intrest but you still like her, the valentine should not be a long romantic love letter, but a sweet reminder that you think about her and if she ever does find the time your still open for that night out. Make the tone playful instead of serious. It may rekindle a bit of her intrest.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't she is clearly too busy right now for any relationship and she seems not that interested. She said her herself. You don't want to get on her nerves. She might be a good friend though and I would still keep in touhc. :( Sorry

[l-hedoniste]

When she's interested, her schedule becomes flexible. Let her be. Move on.

P.S.: This means no Valentine, by the way.

[Reeses-pieces777]

Yeah. It's too bad because that would have been a very sweet thing to do, but she sounds super busy. I agree with what the other girls said.