Is there anyone/do you know anyone who is overweight and happy with it?

[Anonymous]

We all know that most people who gain weight and become out of shape aren't happy with it and thus they start to exercise and eat healthily to lose weight and become in better shape.

Do you know anyone who is overweight and is happy with it? If yes, why are they happy with it?

P.S. I don't like to use expressions like chubby, thick or whatever. I'm overweight and I call it as I see it.

[Anonymous]

some people carry it well..like for example if your tall in height, you won't look as fat as you would if you were short...when your tall you have this grace when you walk and you can still look sexier being overweight

also its about a pretty face too...and nice hair...if you have good facial features and take care of yourself...it masks the overweight issue

style...how you wear clothes can be a plus too! wearing fitted clothes to your shape will make you look curvacious and sexy

a lot of guys also like girls with some padding on them because its more pleasurable in bed when theyre soft to touch and to hug...banging a bag of bones and hard meat isn't too fun as banging a soft cushion...

[sephora]

Well I have a friend from high school and she is fat, and she doesn't do anything about losing weight, but I don't know if she is happy with the way she looks. I think food is comforting to her, and her mom kind of enables her withit, and I know my friend's relationship with her parents isn't that great so she turns to food for comfort.

[ben890]

Yes. My girlfriend is fat (she also refuses to use chubby, thick, *and* overweight). She actually does eat well and exercise, but she doesn't lose weight (she has PCOS, which can cause insulin resistance and thus a higher weight range).

The only reason she's happy with it is because she's rejected the idea that fat = awful, stopped caring that other people automatically assume a whole bunch of sh*t about her and her life, and started actually taking care of herself regardless of whether she loses weight.

She's pretty active in the body positive community too, so she also knows many other people who are fat and perfectly happy with it.

[Asker]

That's great. :) Are YOU happy with your gf's weight? We all know that guys love curvy girls wgo are on the thinner side of the spectrum. I know a lot of guys who'd never date fat girls. What do you think about that?

[ben890]

Yeah, body type doesn't matter much to me so I don't really have a "type," but I love hers. Wouldn't change a thing. I'm mostly stoked about how lucky I am to be with a girl who's happy with herself.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

This interesting to see, because I was going to ask a question like this earlier. I think people who still can manage to get into relationships are happy with it for the most part.