I don't think I'll ever be happy with how I look...I know it sounds bad, but I'm just being honest. There has always been an emphasis on my looks since I was young...for example...my great-grandma (may she rest in peace), would ask me questions like..."does your friend look prettier than you?"...would always tell me to suck my stomach in...
When I was 8, we took a family photo...and my dad sent it overseas to his family...my dad told me that my uncle looked at my picture and said, "what's wrong with her, why isn't she beautiful?" (wish I was making that last one up...but I'll never forget those exact words)...
When I was younger I used to sit in front of the mirror and cry because I thought I was ugly...
I'm sure a lot of people have gone through this...but things like that really affected me...I guess I just take things too hard.
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I'm okay. I haven't fully accepted myself yet but I've heard that it's a process. We all go through ups and downs at some point. There are one or two changes I'd hope to make in the future but that requires money and I'm not in the position right now to finance it. But I think when those things are done I'll be happy...or at least happier :D
I like the way I look. Sure I could work hard and lose a few pounds here or there, but I'm pretty happy with my body.
As for my face, there's nothing I can do to change that, and I think I'm a relatively handsome guy.
Being disassitisfied with your appearance is useless, there will always be people who think your ugly, no matter what you look like. Just look at Meghan Fox, some guys think she's the hottest girl alive, and others, including myself, not so much.
If you want to lose weigth, it should be about getting healthy, not looking good. Losing weight in a healthy way improves your confidence. Losing weight on diets puts a ton of stress on your body, and you'll end up gaining back the weight as soon as you quit and you'll be even unhappier than before.
I can be very insensitive and very lacking in understanding at times. Downright childish actually.
I REALLY need to grow up!
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I accept it,I born that way It doesn't matter to me what anyone else think anymore.
What I would change is
My curly, naturally curly but I don't keep it curly though, it is more like wavy hair that I work too hard to make it look good and healthy but it gets so fking annoying sometimes to the point I want to go bald, I would love to have healthier hair with not that much of problems.
My weight I would love to have a little more weight like more 7 killos or so and be like 45/46/47/48 kg and stay that way I don't mind 50 kg as long as I've flat stomach and toned legs, I didn't born with 91 lbs I born with a little fatter cheeks, I love them lol miss them so much.I'm satisfied with how I look, what I have and what I haven't.
I don't think I need to change anything. Being satisfied and thankful makes you happy and confident. ^^
If I have to change then maybe I need to change somethings in my personality not in my looks. :)I can almost completely accept the way I look. I believe I dress relatively nice on account of my parents pay check. When I start making my own money I can really define the way I dress and look as completely me and completely satisfied.
Currently dissatisfied. I do go to the gym reguarily, and do what I can at home to maintain healthy hair, skin, etc. There's a few features I'd like to change though, however it will be a little while before that happens.
I am satisfied, there isn't really anything I would change about me, sometimes I wish I had different colored eyes, but I'm not going to go get colored contacts, because I feel like that wouldn't be me, and I would be changing something unique to me
i accept who I am right now as I am but I choose to improve on the things I think can be improved. I don't need change in order to accept myself, but I want change to make me happier with myself.
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After some recent changes in glasses frames, hair style, and choice of clothing, I'm feeling much better than I used to about my overall looks.
There are a few things that I wish I can change. But I have come to terms that this is me, and its going to be that way forever. I am not rich , so I cannot afford surgery like the superstars can. I may not like all of me, but I accept it.
Way to frame a question lol. I accept and love my body; but there's always room for improvement. I need to gain about 30 lbs.
im dissatisfied actually but I'm learning to accept that I can't be tall slim and slender, and that I have different body shape..
not satisfied. I'm too skinny for my height so I'm working on that. everything else that I don't like I can't really change like facial structure so I've learned to be content with it. I feel like a 6.5/10 atm
I will never be satisfied with my body even if I do look good I will always be insecure.
I've already don a lot of changing, not much I have left to do now. I accept the way I am.
Im dissatisfield. Just with my appearance, also my personality has some defects. Though I'm working on them.
i feel I need to lose weight, at least 30 or 40 pounds, getting the motivation is one-thing, keeping it is another
nope, need a more muscular body before I will be satisfied
Im very dissatisfied and I'm working hard to try and change every day
i hate how it is okay for girls to base their self-worth on others' opinions but not okay for guys
Hell yeah, I need that 6 pack.
I could be without the scars on my face :P
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