How to accept the reality that he's never going to contact me again?

[Anonymous]

how do you move on from the person you thought you were going to spend your life with, did anything/everything for and loved so much?

ive tried going out, I've made lists of the bad things in our relationship, but I still can't seem to stop wanting him to contact me, which at this point I know in my heart is never going to happen.

how do you get past this?

[Najna]

Time will help. Until it does, try to distract yourself, do the things that you enjoy, focus on your studies or hobbies. Don't beat up on yourself for having bad days. Take one step at the time. Be patient with yourself. Let people around you help you. Remind yourself that this relationship ended so that a better one, one that is meant for you could show up in your life. One day soon you'll be happy again and this pain will be just a distant memory. Good luck!

[SuperPerve]

You have to make a decision to learn about yourself and move on because trying to understand or analyse him is pointless.

You need to throw your energy in to something non relationship related such as a personal project or work. Make some changes in your life :)

[Iamnobody]

try to dash all hopes of you guys getting back together. once that hope is gone you will find that its human instinct to want to move on with your life. for now just busy yourself with lots of things. work, hobbies, movies, TV shows, friends, family. be the first to initiate meetups if you must. I wish you the best!

[Anonymous]

I've been in this same boat. There is no easy way to get past it. Eventually you will just have to find the person that is right for you and settle down and realize it is for the better. I wish you the best of luck

[liyahXxX]

It's totally normal to still feel this way, you need to keep busy like a guy would ( after the breakup) Keep your mind focused on work, go shopping, party. I'm not saying get wasted, just have fun, talk to new people.

[Anonymous]

Why won't he contact you? Be specific.