Are black women interested in white men?

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1. Main question...

I am highly attracted to black girls, I love their natural features including their unique hair and thick bodies but I don't usually see that many of them with white guys. I find black girls incredibly sexy and want to date one but not sure how open they are. Do you like white guys and if so what is it you like about them physically and mentally?

thanks.

2. This is an extra question! feel free to answer this as well!

Ok so naturally my body type is quite muscular with little to no fat and natural bulk. I have been extremely busy for the last couple of months and haven't had any time to work out. Yesterday I did a short minor workout for 10 minutes just involving some push ups and crunches and I noticed I woke up with my belly feeling burned and sore as well as my arms as you do when you work out.

Does the fact that I felt sore after such a short excercize indicate that my body reacts quickly and gains muscle mass quickly? because I know people who can do the same work out and gain little or even feel injured

jenni_ms · Accepted Answer

Yes some black women are attracted to white men, juts the same as some white guys are NOT attracted to black women. It's all a preference. I've actually been asked this question over and over recently by intoxicated white guys. They basically said the same thing, they don't approach black women because they're not sure if we even like them. While drunk, they seem to get up the nerve to talk though lol

I like almost all races, but I realize I can't stereotype. With some white guys, it's very obvious that they're just curious about black girls or want to mark it off their bucket list, so you can't take them seriously. Some are interested, and it's OBVIOUS they want to approach me, but they never do for fear of rejection. The only guy I've ever approached by myself was a white guy recently and I just walked up to him and asked for his number. After talking to him, he said he didn't show any interest in me or approach me because he didn't know if I liked white guys and didn't wanna look stupid.

Physically, it varies what I like, just like with my own race. I've found the clean cut look attractive, regular joe, college jerk, and the guy I mentioned above actually had gauges and tattoos (that's new lol).

What you're gonna have to do is take a risk. Or at least throw out some signals. The most that can happen is she turns you down, and unless she has no tact, she won't say "It's because I don't like white guys, sorry." Just treat her as any other female you want to approach and feel her out to get a better idea of if she's attracted :-)

Your other question: I'm actually studying to become a personal trainer right now. Soreness isn't any indication of how quickly your body will gain muscle mass. It's in direct relation to intensity. When you do a higher intensity workout, your muscles have to work harder to do it. Since you haven't been working out at all, your body got lazy. So although it wasn't actually a high intensity or anything hard at all, your body wasn't used to doing anything so you got the soreness associated with activity. As you go on, you're gonna be able to do that same shirt workout and feel nothing. Raise the intensity, and you'll probably get sore again.

Hope I helped!

Ladyluck28 · Accepted Answer

Q2 coming for someone that doesn't do enough exercise I would find I feel sore after just a little excise due to not doing it a lot or the fact it has been a long while since I worked out last but I work out more I wake up with less sores

Q1 I can speak for myself yes I would go out with someone of a different race including white but I have yet to date a white guy which the main reason is white guys don't approach me and its just mainly black men that do

I have a friend that is really god looking and would date a white guy and wish more would at least spark up a convo with her

LexiNinja · Accepted Answer

I would say I'm definitely attracted to white guys as I am any other race. I've grown up with a well diverse mentality, so I've always been open to the idea of interracial dating. I actually think their quite beautiful to be honest. It sucks because a lot of people aren't open minded to the idea. I always feel the need to keep my options open, because regardless of race, you can fall in love with whomever you let yourself to. Physically I've always been attracted to white guys, there really isn't anything that pops out that isn't any different than another race.

jmr2191 · Accepted Answer

Pictures are worth 1000 words, so look at my profile picture for an explanation.

Anonymous · Answer

This black woman isn't however, some black women are.

There's nothing wrong with you; it's my own personal issue. It may just be a phase, but I would never date a white guy because I don't want to be his experiment. White guys generally seem to think that they're superior. I can't stand the ignorant comments and "jokes" I've heard them make about various ethnic groups. I'd feel like he could never relate to me. It's not that I think white guys are unattractive, it's just me trying to avoid potential issues

DeidreK · Answer

Yes, I am very interested in white guys! :) I don't know what it is but I just find them to be very physically attractive. I've never dated one but have gotten looks from a few, but have never been approached by one. And I am really shy so I usually don't approach guys... I love how they are more passionate, and into making their woman happy instead of just themselves.

Bombshell13 · Answer

A good amount of black girls I know, myself included, are into white guys. What do you mean by how 'open' they are? Physically, I like the same things across all races. Mentally, as stereotypical this is, I don't like when people act 'ghetto' which white guys usually don't.

shadysworld · Answer

yes some black women are interested in white men and are open to dating outside of their race. I'm mainly attracted to white guys, and so are a few of my girl friends. Most black women that like white men aren't really approached though.

3336PS · Answer

I am not black. I have black girl friends, they are open to white and/or other race. a few are married to white men. This is in NYC, so the dynamic of mixed population is very diverse.

smokeandmirrors · Answer

To answer your first question, yes. Just approach a girl that you find attractive like you would anyone else and be yourself. I've got lots of experience on this topic lol

palek · Answer

My wife is black. I'd take that as an affirmation.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure maybe not

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