Why do women perfer badboys or a**holes over nice guys that are willing to have a relationship

[Anonymous]

Im a college student here at Mayville State and the women here go after the guys who most of the time treat there girlfriend sh*tty and they just use them for sex it seems. Only way women notices me if I go to a party and do something dumb or etc., and what bothers me is that they only go after guys that are in sports, or likes to drink heavily. Now this is my situation I'm a one of a kind guy, that has long hair and is smart as hell and I'm still single some how, while I see dead beats that are only good at sports and that's it and they have f***ing model girlfriends here and I'm just amazed that why can't they find me and except me.

Need answers again folks, thanks for all your comments

[Anonymous]

Stop chasing party girls and start finding girls who value what you bring to the table. Find girls who display the same traits that you feel make you a good partner, instead of chasing girls who are with these guys you don't respect. Water seeks it's own level -- the girls with these guys are their female counterparts. Watch Jersey Shore if you want a really obvious demonstration.

These girls may be pretty, but that doesn't mean that they aren't drunks, louts, dumb, shallow, etc. Girls aren't Barbie dolls, where you pick the look you want and then change her clothes to make her into the ideal plaything. They're all different...

Stop being jealous of the jocks, it's a waste of time. Stop putting girls on a pedestal for their figure and faces and start looking for a girl who is actually a good fit for you.

[Anonymous]

every situation is different. what proof do you have that she rejected the nice guy and chose the jerk? did the nice guy even ask her out or talk to her? some guys that complain like this are just delusional and lack confidence and assume the worse. did you even talk to her and flirt? may be she doesn't even know you that well and doesn't realize you're interested in her?! it doesn't matter if its a nice guy a jerk guy a blue guy or green guy, if you like someone go and tell them. stop assuming sh*t and blaming them for your misery.

[Asker]

thank you for the truth and your honest opinion, I guess there is women out there that do care.

[Opinion Owner]

yes. we care and want mr. right in our life.

[Anonymous]

You wouldn't ask how to catch fish by asking one. You would ask a fisherman how he catches them.

Same with bishes brah. Don't ask them how to date them because they don't ****** know. Ask a guy who actually gets women.

[Vandal]

Could well be that those girls are a**holes. Birds of a feather flock together.

[Vandal]

Plus those guys will chase girls a lot. Girls don't really do that since a lot of them are lazy cowards. Some do, though.

[swiftsaver602]

Because you're in college. At that age, a lot of girls keep the high school mentality and go for the jock, a**hole types as much as the jock, a**hole types go for easy, party chicks.

Sure, it makes you feel like sh*t that you can't get a girl, but do you really want a girl that only goes for a guy because he acts stupid and is an a**hole? Of course not. There are genuine girls out there wondering the same thing you are: why they can't get a boyfriend because the men go after girls who look like dumb models.

Try looking somewhere else and you'll find the genuine ones.

[oneconfusedwoman101]

Because the jerks and the a**holes put on such a good front. Trouble is most of us get played or just find ourselves having to leave when the reveal their true nature. Sometimes a girls doesn't realize a guy is a jerk she is just lead by society to believe that's just how men are so why and there's not much you can do about it.

When you do find someone she will appreciate you and you will appreciate her and that's what will make the relationship stick.

[Anonymous]

Most of us don't realize the guy is a jerk until it's too late and we're hooked. Yep, had a super nice guy pursue me relentenlessly until I have in. As soon as I did, he showed his true colors. Keep trying, she's still looking for you. You're still really young to get jaded.

[Anonymous]

okay guys need to get this straight...girls don't like jerks or bad boys! they like "bad" boys in order to turn them into good guys! I am sick of answering this to everyguy who asks this question!

who would wanna spend their lives with someone who cheats on them, treats them bad? us girls we have this tendency to change people around us esp the guys that we fall in love with !

[Anonymous]

Not all girls go for jerks and idiots.

I will say this: college is just one big party for some, and that's all some people are interested in.

[NeighbourGuy]

women like flashy type guys and who gives them attention