HEY YOU: We don't know each other, that's why I need your opinion lol

[JanuaryX]

Hey! :D Need some help here. So basically I'm fat. People call me Adele, but I just don't dress like her. I was just wondering, in your opinion, am I the:

-fat gross girl?

-fat date-able girl?

-fat okay girl?

-fat hot girl?

Here's a pic of me (the one standing):

link

My friends say I'm just fine the way I am.lol I just wanna know what you think, I wanna know what I look like through others' eyes. :)

And don't you worry. I'm on a diet now. Just bought rubbershoes as well. I wanna lose some weight so I could miminize the risk of having Diabetes. :)

Thanks. :)

Updates

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HEY HEY HEY NOW guys! You don't need to fight. :) I appreciate that both of you are on different sides, that was the purpose of this. I wanted to hear 360 degrees worth of opinions from different people--that would mean from contrast to contrast responses. Now, I thank you for your opinions. I will be putting all of it to good use. Peace now, okay? :) Thank you guys. :)

[prophecy]

first option.

people on here are really pathetic, true wankers and they are "fine" with everything that walks and breaths.

better listen to uncle prophecy;

you *need* to lose some weight, because this is too much, so I'm glad that you're on a diet.

you're actually obese, not just overweight.

the good thing is that you have potential to look pretty hot when you lose the weight.

and losing weight is not just about being healthy, but you're a lot more energetic, and attractive to more guys.

[PoeticNinja]

HAHA, she's not OBESE. link -- That's what obesity looks like.

[prophecy]

yes she is. what you have shown is extreme obesity or so-called morbid obesity.

JanuaryX: calculate your BMI.

[JanuaryX]

Thank you for making this constructive. And don't worry, I won't go ballistic or anything. Constructive criticism is part of what I'm after. :)

[prophecy]

can you tell your exact height and weight?

[aMuse]

You could stand to lose some weight. You seem to have a good attitude and high self esteem though. You're goals to lose weight for health reasons and for yourself also looks good on you. Good luck. I'm sure you'll get in shape with a that mental outlook.

[JanuaryX]

Thank you. :) Everyone's blessings here are very much appreciated. You guys are really encouraging. :D Again, Thank you. :')

[PoeticNinja]

Body - Fat.

Face - Okay.

Your body shape is almost like a ruler it seems like. And with that weight on you, it's not helping.

I think once you start losing the weight, you'll see more of a shape.

Glad that you're on a diet and I hope it's a healthy one.

[JanuaryX]

Thank you dear. :D And lol that picture. Hahaha.

[JanuaryX]

And yes, scientifically, if you compute it, I am obese. I just am not as obese as those in The Biggest Loser, and those besties from you picture.lol But hey there honey, Thank you. :)

[Alexias]

I wouldn't say that you're fat but chubby. I commend you on your weight loss journey, muscle is better than no muscle, so burn fat and build muscle! You're going to look even better when you lose the weight.

[JanuaryX]

Thank you! You sound like a trainer yourself! So I bought rubbershoes, right. But then something came up (family financial problems) and so I had to support my parents with all the money I got, and have to sacrifice my gym membership and move it some other time (talking about 6months beyond here :\ ). So I'm planning to just move around here at home, like do YouTube workouts, zumba etc, and I've been controling what I eat. Any advice there? :)

[why-makoto-kun]

You're not gross at all. You're very pretty. What's your BMI, though? You want to be under a 25 BMI weight.

[JanuaryX]

Why, thank you deary. :) Yeah my whole life I've been beyond 25 in BMI. That's why I wanna change things, have a new perspective and all. :D Thank you. :)

[why-makoto-kun]

Great! Yeah, as soon as you're under 25 you're good. And don't listen to the mean guys out there. I had a BMI of 20-21 and a guy dumped me for being too "fat." I'm sure you'll be healthy in no time.

[JanuaryX]

Well all I can say is that that guy who dumped you is an a**. lol It's his loss, obviously not yours. ;) Thank you for the motivation. :D

[why-makoto-kun]

Aww thanks!

[RavinJade]

Fat ok/datish girl. First things first. Forget about dieting and only eat good food then go exercise. Your goal is not to lose weight but to burn fat. One pound of muscle from exercising is a tenth of the size of one pound of fat. It's not your weight you want to change it's your fat. Concentrate on burning fat and building muscle so you can burn more fat when working out. Then of course eat only good food and sleep. No snacking even good food and nothing before bed.

[JanuaryX]

Wow if we were neighbors I'd probably ask you to train me (from plates to pilates lol)! Thanks for this. Will be noting this down. :)

[Anonymous]

I don't see any problems. Certainly if I were in your age group I would be glad to date you. I think your eyes are beautiful and personally, if a guy puts more emphasis on your figure than your personality and character I really don't think you need to waste your time on him anyway. I don't think you should have any problems dating.

[JanuaryX]

TRUE. and I won't be wasting my time on them that's for sure. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

If you want honesty, you probably need to drop over 30 lbs or so. Serious cardio is the only way, so find something you like to do along those lines, and do it for an hour at least 4 times a week. Diet is important too, but the only thing that will burn the fatty tissue is cardio

[JanuaryX]

30 lbs isn't just honesty, it'll be a set goal. Long term. :D Actually more would be better! And thanks by the way. :)

[autumn555]

you're thick/chubby in my opinion you are perfectly fine...your arms could use some toning but other than that you're body is great

[JanuaryX]

I know! Darn right my arms are heavy lol. Okay I'll be workin on that ;) Thanks, hun!

[autumn555]

mine are the same way so I pay extra attention to them at the gym lol

[Racez]

You're not even fat. You're just kind of having some extra fat in your bodies. Try working out a lot and tone down your shape a little.

[JanuaryX]

Indeed I will try getting in shape. I'll see how it works. :D Thank you. :)

[Anonymous]

You're definitely not gross, but that hairstyle does not work for your face at all. I know you're wearing a formal dress there, and probably going to some sort of to-do, but try to stay away from styles that pull the hair back away from your face.

[JanuaryX]

I know! Regretted the hair afterward lol. Thanks ha ha :D

[Confucius16]

I think you're okay. You have a great personality and a good view of life.

[JanuaryX]

Thank you, Confucius16. :)

[Confucius16]

No problem.

[AliTickleMeElmo]

to be honest, you're adorable and beautiful, don't let anyone tell you different :)

[JanuaryX]

Awgh. Thanks, hun. :) I'll keep that in mind. It's okay actually, I just wanna be fit and know how it feels like to run an oval track without panting my knees off lol. Thank you. :)

[JohnWhilkins]

You're not gross but I'm not perticularly attracted.

[JohnWhilkins]

Let me rephrase that. Your fat is not pertcularly attractive, it does look like it's hiding some pretty hot face though :) and you do look sweet.

[JanuaryX]

Thank you. :) I'd take "Hiding some pretty hot face" as a motivation then. :D lol but not kidding here haha

[frenchy21]

you seem a grate sport , a person that is up bet I wish you luck with the training , not something to do and keep up ,

[JanuaryX]

Why, thank you. :) I wouldn't get anything If I'd be sour about things and life as a whole so yeah. The best of luck goes out to you toooo. :D

[Anonymous]

You're the pretty chubby girl. Not gross at all. That's a good thing because if you're cute and fat, you'll be stunning when you slim down.

[JanuaryX]

It'll be jsut like Adele slimming down vs. Rihanna as she is. lol. Thank you fir this motivation, hun. :) :D

[Anonymous]

Id tap that.

If you want to appease the majority of men and get more attention, nutrition, cardio and workint out are the way to go.

[JanuaryX]

ok got it! Thanks

[Anonymous]

Fat? Maybe, but "really chubby" yes. But not gross. and I like your attitude. :) I think you'll do great losing weight.

[JanuaryX]

"really chubby" lol that made me laugh :)))) Anyway, thank you deary!

[britannny]

I honestly wouldn't even describe you as fat.

[JanuaryX]

Thanks, honey. :)

[prophecy]

GIMME A BREAK!

why do you need to lie to people? of course she's fat. she's REALLY FAT. and stop encouraging this kind of lifestyle.

[britannny]

Oh, I'm not lying to her. I don't look at her and think "fat". If I thought she were fat and gross I probably wouldn't even answer. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all, is what I always say. But I mean who cares what you think. I know I don't.

[prophecy]

you're a liar. once again.

[JanuaryX]

HEY HEY HEY NOW guys! You don't need to fight. :) I appreciate that both of you are on different sides, that was the purpose of this. I wanted to hear 360 degrees worth of opinions from different people--that would mean from contrast to contrast responses. Now, I thank you both for your opinions. I will be putting all of it to good use. Peace now, okay? :) Thank you. Both of you. :)

[britannny]

oh my god. f*** off, prophecy. you're probably just a bitter virgin, just like about 95% of all the other guys on this site.

[why-makoto-kun]

Dude, just because she doesn't have the same opinion doesn't mean she's lying. Some people reserve the term "fat" for morbidly obese people, which this QA is not.

[britannny]

I'm on of those people that reserves the term fat for the morbidly obese.

[asianhunk]

you are not obese. you're just chubby.

[JanuaryX]

Tawag nga nila sakin Adele o Frenchie Dy eh. Cge lang, positive naman ako at ayoko maging tamad. :) Thank you. :)

[asianhunk]

oi pinay ka pala. huwag kang mag-alala cute ka naman ;-). you are very welcome.

[Anonymous]

you are chubby but not fat. and you are cute.

[JanuaryX]

Thank you. :)

[Anonymous]

You're not fat, you're "plus-sized"

[JanuaryX]

I should start "subtracting" that "plus-sized" then lol got it. Thanks!