I'm so conflicted...

[pinkducktape]

I've always been made fun of throughout high school for having small boobs, I was an athlete and very toned, so I was small. People would harass me endlessly for it and I hated it. Now, I've gained a little weight since then and my boobs have filled out a little more, now I'm between a B and C but I still feel horrible. I think about getting a boob job a lot but I really don't know. I know that in my mind I'm telling myself that by getting it done, guys will finally find me attractive unlike they did when they were making fun of me. But the logical part of me is saying that the guys I want to be with shouldn't care...

Im really conflicted, and I don't want to make a huge mistake.

Any opinions?

[confused415]

I think you are fine the way you are. You need to love yourself and not do crazy invasive surgery just to "correct" things you don't like. Every one has reasons to dislike themselves/body/face etc. However, is it worth risking your life and changing your body to do so? It won't make you like yourself any more than you do now. Sure you will have bigger boobs, but at what costs? Will you be able to stop there?

Do things that make YOU happy. Exercise, meet amazing positive people, do hobbies that interest you. Gain self esteem and forget guys who like your physical self.

Every girl has met people and guys who didn't like them as they were. I've even had a guy tell me if I lost 20 lbs he'd date me. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! I was even picked on for being anorexic to pregnant fat. It's a crazy world out there!

Honestly, I've never met a guy who said "I don't like her because her boobs are small" I mean really, are you kidding me? If there ever was one, would you want to date him?! He'd only find other reasons to dislike you. Eventually you'd be "too fat" or "too skinny" He'd never be happy with you!

Learn to love yourself above all else. Surround yourself with good, happy, and positive people.

[UkOxygen]

If a man "falls for" you or dislike you only because of your body, he isn't your Mr. Right.

All my ex tried to reach out for my E after a few kisses. Then they moved on to ask for sex. After I rejected, some of them left and some of them stayed. Even for those who stayed, our relationship didn't last long because they couldn't behave themselves and keep their hands away from my boobs.

Two of my ex once asked me to workout. They complained about my belly, my thigh, my whole body except my boobs.They demanded me to slim up my waist to 24 inches without sizing down my boobs. I started to hate my body and stopped dating because I thought everyone who comes close is for my boobs not for me.

The boyfriend I have now, he loves me and my body, as well as my body fat. I once told him I want to get a breast deduction, from E to B, he immediately came up with, "If that makes you happy and do no harm to your health, go ahead." and on the same day, he google and read a lot of related medical reports and info to ensure it does no harm to me.

You are beautiful, inside out. You don't need other changes. All you need to do is to look for a man who loves you inside out.

[T-time19]

I agree with your logical side :). If a dude doesn't like you/find you attracitve because of your breast size, then he isn't worth knowing or worth your time. At the end of the day, you should do what makes you happy and comfortable with yourself, not what might make others happy. Just my opinion, but I don't think you should go through with getting a boob job. I'm sure you look uniquely exquisite as you are now :). Don't freak out and try to change yourself to make others happy, trust me I did it for a LONG time and it sucked. Always remember to just be yourself, do what makes YOU happy, and remember there is a lock for every key. Wow I sound like an old person now...I need to stop haha

[Littletad]

"If you let peoples perception of you dictate your behavior, you'll never grow as a person." The problem here is that you aren't really unhappy, you're unhappy with the way people perceive you. And that's what's so sad here. I see your picture, as others do, and I see a perfect girl. Learn to walk on your own two shoes please, with the only person being able to judge is yourself.

[muzakman23]

This is a very personal decision I've seen girls get boob jobs and their self confidence goes up. But for me it doesn't matter I've been with girls with no boobs to girls with dd in all honesty if the guy gets the shirt off he's probably having fun with youand more attracted to more than just your boobs.

[women-venusmen-mars]

I think you should be greatful that they did get bigger some people no matter how much weight they put on it does not go to their chest. If you were to get a boob job think about the cost the pain and the opinions some guys also don't like a fake rack which Is what I am going to have to get because I literally have like nothing there. you should be like look whos laughing now bitches because you are no longer small chested.

[Breathe]

Its the "quick fix" solution that our whole culture takes advantage of. Its the same thing for guys trying to buy expensive cars and clothes thinking that IT will be the key to getting girls..

Its bullsh*t, its much more about how you interact with guys and how you feel about yourself

[Janson]

I wouldn't go for it. Your point is a good one. You don't want a guy who is only into you for your boobs so..

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It is a huge mistake to modify your body in an attempt to please other people.

[Light_Yagami]

Don't change yourself to impress guys, if you want to change then make sure you're doing it for you.

[Anonymous]

You didn't make a big mistake. You're attractive now, and you should pick the guys who you really like.

[Anonymous]

I think that if a guy likes you for your boobs you don't want him anyways. I'm sure your boobs are fine.

[Anonymous]

You have some nice body ! Nice boobs and nice legs ! Yum