Generally, is it true that the less you care he more others care when it comes to flirting and/or initiating conversation?

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I noticed this with the shy girl I like but I am unsure if she likes me (mixed signals). Whenever I give up out of frustration she is always the one to initiate. And I always get more eye contact when I stop caring too. Generally, is it true that the less you care he more others care when it comes to flirting and/or initiating conversation?
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Is this also true for texting?
Generally, is it true that the less you care he more others care when it comes to flirting and/or initiating conversation?
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