oh lol. I actually, there were two guys today who looked at me and their faces were all red lol. I don't know why but it's such a coicidence I see a question about it. Well, I recomend being calm and collected and maybe start a conversation with her. smile lots. be yoruself. make sure you look presentable and I'm sure it will catch her attention ^_^. have confidence. talk to more people. be outgoing. make friends who can intro you to other girls as well. the key is to talk, to catch her interest. I am more impressed when a guy approaches me and we've seen each other a few times. if you shake and stutter, I think it's cute, but work on that. work on it by talking to everyone and getting a feel for confidence ^_^
Stop focusing on yourself and the fact that you are nervous, it will only make you more nervous. I imagine that when you're trying to ask a girl out you are thinking about how red your face is, how you're stuttering, and how dumb you must sound. It's probably not as bad as you think. Instead, focus on her. Just make light conversation and then devote all your concentration to listening to what she has to say. Trust me, everyone likes to talk about themselves and their interests. So ask her what she likes to do, what classes she is taking, what her goals are, etc. The rest will come. And don't smoke a joint first - most girls hate the smell. If that doesn't work, try Paxil!
Just chill out. Your talking with a fellow human being not the Queen of England (although more power to you if you are). It's best to be relaxed and be yourself. If the girl you're with at the moment is really attracted to you then she wouldn't care about the kinds of quirks you have because she'll like you for you. Remember, true love is never earned, it's just simply there. Good luck!
A few steps:
1. lower your expectations about what might happen between you and the girl
2. think nobody's better than you
3. buy new clothes
4. be in shape
5. smoke a joint
6. wash your teeth
7. think ''I don't give a damn''
If you follow these steps you'll be the coolest ahaha.. but hey it's normal to be a little nervous
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just talk to them as if they were your friends, but tone down the disgusting stuff that they might find creepy and/or be a little more confident/have a sense of humor when speaking.
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