I have gained so much weight.

[nikasnow27]

At 15, I was 181 lb. Then I lost 40 lb and met the man I am with today. I got my first job at a pizzeria and got on birth control and you can probably guess what happened. I can't find a new job so far. My boyfriend isn't going to leave me because of the weight I gained, but I know he finds me less attractive. I am having such a hard time dieting and I feel so sorry for him that I can't be what I used to be. What should I do?

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My boyfriend tries helping me, but he never goes to the gym with me and I hate working out alone. Sometimes when he helps me it comes off as rude and I get discouraged, even when I know his intentions are good. I am just worried about him getting sick of me and moving on, and I really am trying.

[martyfellow]

Get help with the dieting. Sign up with an organization that gives you a scientifically researched diet, so you save the time counting calories and can just follow their script. I'd suggest Weight Watchers, but there are many others just as good.

Working out is fine, but the diet is the first priority. Don't worry too much about the working out. It will come more easily to you as you start losing weight and look better in the mirrors at the gym.

[Goran]

Control baby,control.Dont eat if you don't feel hunger,

if you do feel, then eat. Eat in small portions

Don't drink juice and stuff,only water.

for start this is enough.

to see effect,takes time for body to adjust.and start working this way.

nothing can be undone over night,takes time. take care

[Anonymous]

stop relying on him, you need to work out on your own, make your own healthy meals, etc.

[beastman88]

stop eating pizzas, eat more salads and start working out

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Eat better, work out more.