No girls are talking to me...

[Anonymous]

Hey, I am in the last class of high school, and in 12 years of school I only talked to 10-12 girls, and all of these were classmates. No girl has ever come and talk to me or anything. I can't say I'm ugly, I'm somewhere in the middle, but I'm a little overweight, not much, and I'm terribly shy. I got a lot of friends but I'm not popular. I think it's strange cause many friends of mine are like me and they know many girls etc... Can you please tell me what you think and what I can do? I don't think I can do anything, but plz tell me what you think.

[Littletad]

I think you need to stop saying, "No girl comes to me", and reverse that. How many girls have you gone up to? What I figure your probably thinking is, "It's too late now, since high school is about to be over". Let me remind you that it's never too late to learn about the opposite sex. It's never too late to become more sociable and build more confidence as time goes on. Start hanging out with the few friends you do have and learn to gather. Don't be a loner simply because you think it "suits" you. Fight the urge to be alone or aloof and join the crowd. I say this because it seems your problem doesn't pertain to girls, but rather communication itself. And remember that there is no time limit on this. You still have college, your future job, and many other social events to practice socialism. Start building confidence now. Don't wait.

[Anonymous]

The problem is that you haven't talked to any girls!

just start talking to some that you find interesting.

personality is way more important than looks( but looks still matter), so show off your personality and a few girls might notice you!