I want to completely change the way I look.

Anonymous
I've already done the losing weight part and I may start lifting weights , but I really want to change the way I look. I'm 18 now and have never been "that" cute girl :/ I mean I know guys find me cute in ways, but I mean I have never been the typical teen age girl that you would see at the mall. The one that is buying cute clothing -.- I think that I need a change of image! First I want to start with lightening my skin tone. I'd also like to grown out my hair and buy clothing that is more appropriate for a young woman entering the work force.

Do you have any skin lightening methods that do not require bleach? Any tips on how I can dress like a young woman? Post links of style if you want :)

Also, do you agree with what I am doing? Why or why not?
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My original skin tone link

What I am now (results of summer) link I would like to be link

Before anyone calls self hate No it is not self hate. I like my color it is just hard to work with :/ And it always makes me look shine which equals looking sweaty! :/
I want to completely change the way I look.
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