I just got out of a engagement about 3 months ago. I have completely lost the breakup so to speak, I had to move back in with my parents, she is already sleeping with someone else, ofcourse because she was doing that when we were together, and I am still paying for the bed I got for us last year, I had to work a 90 hr week for us to get the bed. I am paying it because she refuses to. Long story short, I am still working to pay for her to have a nice bed to f*** other guys in. It eats me up, but that isn't the reason that I am asking this question,
When I moved back to my hometown, I started hanging out with old friends again, and twice now they told me it isn't about how you look it's about how you talk to a girl. I talk to girls fine I thought I did anyway. I am a big guy, but I don't let it bother me when talking to people simply because I am loosing weight, and for now this is who I am. To be completely honest I want to sleep with someone else just to get my ex-fiancee out of my head, lessen the hurt maybe.
When I talk to girls I just talk, I don't use lines or anything like that I just talk. I mean the guys I hang with are cool, but they have always been the kind of guys to sleep around. I've never been that kind of guy, but I want this change in my life, even just for a little while until I can get over my ex. Can anyone give me soem advice?
Like I said I am a big guy, but I am not ugly. I have about 6 months to a year of me losing weight before I hit my goal weight, which is fine because I will be graduating college in 6 months.
Continue to losing weight, strengthen my social skills, graduate college, and change my entire life style that I have had up until this point in my life. Those are my goals right now.
When I moved back to my hometown, I started hanging out with old friends again, and twice now they told me it isn't about how you look it's about how you talk to a girl. I talk to girls fine I thought I did anyway. I am a big guy, but I don't let it bother me when talking to people simply because I am loosing weight, and for now this is who I am. To be completely honest I want to sleep with someone else just to get my ex-fiancee out of my head, lessen the hurt maybe.
When I talk to girls I just talk, I don't use lines or anything like that I just talk. I mean the guys I hang with are cool, but they have always been the kind of guys to sleep around. I've never been that kind of guy, but I want this change in my life, even just for a little while until I can get over my ex. Can anyone give me soem advice?
Like I said I am a big guy, but I am not ugly. I have about 6 months to a year of me losing weight before I hit my goal weight, which is fine because I will be graduating college in 6 months.
Continue to losing weight, strengthen my social skills, graduate college, and change my entire life style that I have had up until this point in my life. Those are my goals right now.
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