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Can a girl find and contact a guy first?
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"girls should not try to contact a guy first after meeting him somewhere."
Yeah, that advise came from girls. Girls who are always in competition with other girls. I don't think I've ever seen girls give actual helpful advice to other girls. It's always about sabotaging their chances.
In other words, this advice is horse sh*t.
"if the guy is interested he'll track her down and get a hold of her."
In a perfect world this would be true. But in this world, it's a crock. There can be many reasons why a guy would be interested in her and fail to track her down and get hold of her.
" Is it a bad idea to locate and contact a guy after meeting them if you felt a connection?"
No, not at all.
Of course you can. There are many reasons a guy wouldn't contact a girl first. Not being interested in her is only one possible reason.
Well, I guess an easy way would be Facebook. Send him a message saying something like, "Hey, you might not remember me, but I'm A. We met at X. I just thought you were cute and interesting. So I wanted to track you down. Maybe we could go out for coffee sometime :)". Guys are notoriously bad at taking hints, but with a message like that, I think the hint would be loud and clear.
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your a girl so why not try and make contact if you felt there was something there . this kind of thing is only considered creepy when a guy say gets rejected in a bar then tracks the girl down on Facebook and she doesn't understand how he could ever of found her
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but still don't try too hard if you do find him online and he doesn't reply don't keep trying to contact him if he doesn't appear interested , its OK to try but you can only try so hard
I like when a girl is a bit forward. I guess I'm more of a shy guy, but even still it is nice to no that she is interested and wants to see me again. IF I wasn't interested I'd let her know somehow.
Even now as a more forward guy, it helps to know fully that a girl is interested. :D
Of course they can and they should. It's bullsh*t if a man is expected to do all the planning/initiating/whatnot. Guys aren't going to think poorly of a girl at all doing so. That's a bullsh*t statement girls tell other girls for... no logical reason.
I think it only helps.
If he isn't into you, it'll be clear. And you lost nothing.
If he is into you, it'll be clear. And you gained clarity.
i voted no in the sense it's not a bad idea. it's nothing wrong in doing what you feel that is right
A, just be flirty and funny.
Yeah they can if granted
yes, they can.
yes, she can
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