How do you solve this problem?

[Anonymous]

A boy I used to go with called me dirty. But yet he was talking to me early today. The thing is that he said it to my friend since pre-k. I think they are going out. Now I have a very short temper fuse. So what should I do before its too late.

[Reeses-pieces777]

just get to know him. talk to him and see what he's like, whether or not he meant it in a bad way, just ask him what he meant by that and judge his reaction to that simple question. you can always ask your friend if they're going out or other friends. I'm not sure what you having a short temper fuse has to do with it. if they are going out already, there really isn't much to do. but the best thing is to talk to him and see what he thinks, how he is and whether or not he meant what he said.

[palek]

If, by dirty, he alludes to the state of your hygiene, you might do well to make some adjustment in this area. If, rather, he meant to infer some proclivity on your part to perversion of a sexual nature, then I suggest you bludgeon him soundly. That is, of course, if he exaggerates. lol

[palek]

By the way, I'm joking. Learn to ignore people who talk behind your back, as they should be pitied and avoided.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand what the problem is, are you jealous he's dating your friend? It sounds like if he called more than one person dirty that he might have just been being sarcastic.

"before its too late"

What are you saying you might do?

[Asker]

They aren't going out and by too late I meant before I get smart I take anger managerment