How to stop being infatuated?

Anonymous
I'm not usually someone who becomes easily infatuated or gets a crush on some guy but, recently, I think I'm infatuated by this guy at the office. We work in different departments but meet up in the hallway, dining room, etc a lot, at least once a day.

Anyway, I only got to notice him because I always found him looking at me. Even if we didn't even greeted each other sometimes, we made eye contact often. He usually just glanced at me with this blank expression on his face, so I glanced back and that was that.

However, after coming back from a trip a couple of weeks ago, he's quick to greet me and rush out of the room... I thought it was just a coincidence as he seems to be focusing more on his job lately and working longer, but it happens every time... Sometimes he greets me even before I've taken notice of him being there and off he goes somewhere. He never ignores me or anything, he even acts as a gentleman by holding doors and letting me cut in front, but yeah...

I'm thinking maybe he was infatuated by me in the beginning but, if so, has fallen out of it. In that case, I want out too...

Is there anything I can do?
How to stop being infatuated?
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