Well to be honest, if its love. I for one wouldn't care how you look because in my eyes you would be wonderful (that gives me problems sometimes when my girlfriend lose weight or something and asks me if she looks nice when I already thought she did x_x)
If not love, I don't think I would date you as easily. Maby its because I'm not that interested in a relationship outside the one I got now. Also I think its a bit irresponsible to become really fat (don't know how much 300lb is... Why can't we all just agree on Grams?) altho being chubby is not that much of an issue.
so... If your living healthy (no daily supply of coca cola or similar) and exercise regularly, is fairly smart and got good personality your close to the "perfect girl" the weight shouldn't be a problem then since you prove that your responsible ;)
Nothing. I've usually dated big girls. I'd date them a second time if they had:
1. intelligence
2. Decent social skills
3. A nice cuddly bod
4. No nasty habits (smoking, binge drinking, etc)
5. a drive in life
I've seen attractive women in your weight range, so that's not an issue if you're active and have some stamina.
If you're getting called pretty all the time, then your weight is only a problem in your head.
There's nothing wrong with it dating a bigger girl if that's their thing. Everyone finds beauty in different ways and everyone has a type that they are physically attracted to. If you are comfortable then work it out. But the fact is that its not just a physical thing. Its very unhealthy. I doubt that if you saw a guy that was 600 pounds you would be all over it and want him. Men want a confident girl that takes care of herself and respects her mind and body. Keep it up with the weight loss and make sure that you are getting good info about weightloss and ways to begin a healthier lifestyle.
uh, its good you lost weight. I know how you feel. I have weight problems too. I'm not sure why weight is such a big thing now... I don't see why people want to be as thin as a stick or something like that. i, personally, like being sort of big. its all muscle for me though. I guess some people don't like the idea of "big" girls. I get told I'm "Fluffy" and not "big", doesn't help me esteem much... but as long as you love yourself, everyone will probably come around and look more then "skin deep"
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I think the same thing, your weight is only a problem because you think it is.
have you ever heard of B.B.W ?
stand for big beautiful women.
ALOT of guys find it more sexy for a girl to be bigger.
you sound like a wonderful girl.
Confidence makes you sexy!
Being pretty does not mean being skinny.
I'm 5"3 and weight 111 lbs.
I WANT TO WEIGHT MORE.
skinny is way over ratted.
I think skinny is veryy ugly and a lot of guys think the same thing.
If you rather it gone then work out, eat healthy, and DON'T WORRY =]
What is wrong? Society - for the most part - people who are obese and unhealthy don't seem to be the societal norm - but every single person is different.
Your weight is only a problem because you think it is. If you don't like it, work out - if working out won't help - see a specialist - if you are happy - go get out more - you'll find somebody I know it.
For me it's more of a health issue. Being a bigger girl is fine as long as you aren't putting your health in risk. The weight that you are at does make it harder on your body. Because you are younger your heart is ok but as you get older it will start to take it's toll on you. Keep losing weight so you don't die of a heart attack at a young age. Good job on your diligence by the way.
Well the shy part might be it. usually confidence seems to be a turn on to men, so never put yourself down. just because your a little heavier then some people doesn't mean anything, and you sound like a great person. if your weight makes you uncomfortable, then continue to fix it, mostly for health reason, however be confident that ur still a beautiful person.
Keep losing the weight your doing great! But just because your bigger doesn't mean that other people can tell you what healthy is! Healthy is what the doctor says! If you were like 7'2" 282 lbs ain't that much versus you being 4'9". Also your bone density counts along with a whole array of things! As long as you are healthy wealthy and wise!
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Besides the fact that its extremely unhelathy? Sorry but your like 2 of me and the things I liked to do and would enjoy doing with a girl that I am in a relationship would be running biking going to theme parks I like skating. You would never be able to keep up and it would get frustrating
Because it's unattractive. I'm sorry but that body is not what's hot. Some guys may have a BBW fetish and some can overlook weight, but to the majority of men it's just not attractive. I hate to come off as rude but that's the way it is. Congrats on losing the weight, I know it's hard but hang in there! Your dating life will get much better as you lose the weight.
I'm not sure that I understand your question?
Are you asking what is wrong with dating a bigger girl, or something else?
As a side note good for you for losing 18 pounds that is fantastic, keep up the good work.
Being big and being a good person are two different things. The only thing you should worry about is your health, because of course if you get too large it's not good for you. But you sound like you're taking care of that so I wouldn't worry. :)
Well its a serious health problem, putting relationships aside.
It's not a problem! I love that you ask this question.
nothing I swrong with u=]
us girls come in diffrent shapes and sizes.
but were all beautiful.
dont worry ull find someone who loves you for are u.
the sad reality is, at first glance a man is attracted to a woman with sex appeal. I'm not excluding my self. call me a hypocrite but at leat I'm honest.
I definitely would. Big girls are hot in my opinion.
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