Why won't my ex-girlfriend come get her stuff from my house?
Alright, me and my ex girlfriend dated for 3 years and she broke up with me. The end of our relationship was sort of rough and I think she broke up with me because I was a dick. I took it a little hard in the beginning, but I left her alone and tried not to show her how much she hurt me. After about a month I still wasn't over her so I stopped talking to her all together. We even had a class in university together and I stopped sitting beside her like I did before we broke up. She even tried to add me as a friend on facebook, but I declined. I did this so I could get over her, not because I'm a dick, and move on, which worked.
About 4 months later I met a new girl and we are now dating and have been for about seven months. During the time I was with my new girlfriend, my ex wrote me a facebook message asking for her stuff (this was about 6 months after we broke up and you can still write messages without being friends on facebook). So I messaged her back saying it was fine for her to come and get her stuff from me whenever she wanted to. (might I add that when I messaged her back it allows her to be my friend on facebook for a month so she can see everything that I do on facebook). She ended up not coming to get her stuff or messaging me back. Now, Me and my ex girlfrind (she still hasn't got another boyfriend) have been broken up for a year and she sent me another message on facebook asking for her stuff back again, but this time she asked if she could pick it up the next day. So I wrote her back and said sure she can pick it up, but she never came or messaged me back.
Weird thing is, my birthday was the day before she messaged me to get her stuff back, and before this message we haven't spoke to eachother since the last facebook message (about 6 months ago) . I was just wondering why this girl won't come and get her stuff from me? A few thoughts I am having right now are 1) might my birthday being a couple days ago mean anything 2) do you think that she still has feelings for me 3) maybe she doesn't want to come get her stuff because she knows that when she does she'll never have a reason to speak to me again? 4) Or maybe she messaged me again so she could be able to see my profile on facebook for some weird reason? But don't forget she broke up with me!
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